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If a guy wants to cuddle with you and do bf activities as a hookup. What the fuck does that mean?!!!!!
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Anonymous 1w

It means he sees you as nothing but a mere sex object

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Anonymous 1w

lowk nothing it’s neutral imo

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Anonymous 1w

I would assume that means you have a bf if you want one?

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Anonymous 1w

Cuddling is basically like foreplay these days

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Anonymous 1w

That those activities are nice and fun and cute and he wants to do them with you as a hook up? Idk what you don’t know? Like what’s the source of your confusion?

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Anonymous 1w

my boys jut trying to feel loved without going thru all the troubles and drama of being in a relationship, smart guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

It’s weird lol, I just wanna fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Well I ain’t the one, go find another sucka

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Because it’s a manipulation tactic, we are not dating. Usually, it’s just a one and done thing. I know what I came for. I know what you came for. Why are the extra shit?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

WHAT’s a manipulation tactic? Why would he bother to manipulate you if he already got what he wants and doesn’t want to see you again? Guys aren’t that smart, we don’t have it in us to manipulate people at random for no reason, it takes a lot out of us. And again, what do you mean WHY the extra shit? I just told you why. It’s nice, cute, fun. The fact he enjoys it isn’t enough of a reason to make sense? That was reason enough to have sex with each other, wasn’t it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

What are you not understanding? It’s a manipulation tactic to make you obsessed with them. I don’t know why they do it but they do. Guys are more conniving and manipulative nowadays more than ever. Just because it takes a lot out of YOU doesn’t mean that it takes a lot out of other men. No, it’s not nice cute and fun. It’s weird. A lot of women fall for that bullshit. no the reasoning why I fuck them it’s because I want to, not for the extra stuff if I wanted that stuff, I would get a boyfriend.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Im a man, ur not, I offered the obvious explanation for behavior your post was claiming not to understand (cuddling feels nice) and ur insisting that, no, men who never want to see you again are manipulating you for literally no reason. A) Does that actually make more sense to you? Men are rational creatures; the most direct explanation is almost always correct. B) Why did you ask if you already (pretend to) know the answer? C) Y r u freaked abt it if u dont want a bf anyway?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

me as a man too, i think cuddling after fucking is not bad, even if is a hookup, i don’t do it because i want the girl to feel attached to me, i just do it because i simply like it

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