
that’s real, but like if you have an open conversation w her ab how yall are feeling w your sex life, you can learn more about what she wants and she can learn more about what you want, so that way you’re both working to better take care of one another. not a douche move if you do it right, just open communication. now saying “you should give me head more” out of the blue would be douche-y, but initiating a conversation like “how do you feel about our sex life rn” or something is much better imo