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how as a guy do you show you’re open to or looking for the experience of casual sex without it being interpreted as predatory or that all you caring about? I’m literally a progressive but that doesn’t mean I’m anti-sex or hu. It’s like a hellish middle…
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Anonymous 1d

If a girl says no then you respectfully back off. Easy peasy.

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Anonymous 1d

Just ask em gang most people don’t want a relationship early on

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Anonymous 1d

Use tinder. Look for people who want casual or open relationships.

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Anonymous 1d

maybe make a couple heavy handed hints and gauge her reaction? or kiss to see if there’s obvious chemistry happening? or just ask point blank what their thoughts are on the matter and accept what they say… frame it as direct communication. all of those work one on one and can be respectful given the context.

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Anonymous 1d

It’s a lose-lose situation unfortunately. If you are honest and say you’re only looking for sex then you are shamed and yelled at. If you say you aren’t wanting hu and want a relationship and take it slow you are ghosted or they say there is no spark. It’s just not worth it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Well yeah the sky is blue, why is this comment made with so much assumed malice

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Mr negative over here

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Mr realistic over here haha

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yeah sure man whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You thought that was malice? Damn you’re sensitive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

No, it’s just obvious you’re coming into the conversation with emotional bias gng. I don’t mind if you’re upset I understand the kneejerk reaction when seeing a post that sounds vaguely “nice guy”-ish is to go on the defensive. I was just letting you know to slow down.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

lol this is so weird. I wasn’t upset or mad at all when I read your post. I was giving a legitimate answer

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

never said you were mad, but that’s cleared up so much love twin

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