Confessions on Sidechat | i got asked to be a gf two weeks ago and i said yes bc i rlly like him but he asked me in a normal conversation. like no flowers, no gifts, no sign, nothing. am i the asshole for being slightly disappointed by this?

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Confessions 20h

i got asked to be a gf two weeks ago and i said yes bc i rlly like him but he asked me in a normal conversation. like no flowers, no gifts, no sign, nothing. am i the asshole for being slightly disappointed by this?

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yes

56 votes

Anonymous 20h

You should tell him that you think it would be really romantic if he asked you out again but in a special way, tell him you’ll get him something too

Anonymous 20h

I wouldn’t call you an asshole but I do think it would be weird to be upset with him over that

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Anonymous

#3 20h

If it really matters to you, ask to redo it

Anonymous

#2 20h

yeah maybeee, i feel like that moment passed already

Anonymous 20h

i reacted good!! i was still happy bc at the end of the day i was always gonna say yes no matter how he asked

Anonymous

#3 20h

that’s fair, i feel selfish abt it. it’s just he’s my first bf so i always pictured that moment differently if that makes sense? but im not upset just slightly disappointed if anything

Anonymous 20h

i understand that, that’s why i’m mixed abt it

Anonymous

OP 20h

I’m gonna be honest I’ve only seen stuff like that happening in romance movies 😭 maybe it happens with guys who already know their partner well enough to know she likes that sort of thing but idk

Anonymous

#3 20h

and yk that’s so fair. and this is my first bf so idk what’s the norm for any of this 😭 ty for explaining that to me. again im just happy he asked me so it’s okay :) and he’s already gotten me flowers before too