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Part of me feels guilty for not inviting my family to my college graduation even tho I hate them, but after this years events with them especially, I can’t stomach looking at them without disgust
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Anonymous 1d

What happened with them this year?

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Anonymous 1d

Sounds like you made the right decision

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

They found out I called police on my ex from his mom (hate her too bc she only did it mad I wouldn’t answer her spam calls while he was in jail, but I called her for help b4 cops and she screamed at me). Then bc I wouldn’t answer my parents spam calls and ft them morning after, they threatened to cut me off financially (tuition, rent, doordash, uber). THEN my 28yo sister texted a girl at my college I wasn’t on good terms with asking for info about what happened to me, exposing my story to tell

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Only going off that, aside from your sister maybe and his mom, I can understand why your parents would be blowing up your phone and even threatening those things bc they needed info from you. Or maybe that’s stuff my controlling parents would do too and I’m still too conditioned

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

But, I certainly would need to know more info and at the same time know you’re valued since idk the rest

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Valid*

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

I answered all their texts, said I was fine and doing hw, but they wanted to know and see exactly how he hurt me which is invasive bc we rarely speak, they don’t rly know me at all, and they always talk bad about me. The threats were just fucked. Common sense you don’t do that to someone who was just assaulted and handling it on own while still processing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

For more context, my mom is crazy. She never wanted me, always told me I was accident as kid. She takes out her issues with my dad and her sister (my aunt) on me. She doesn’t have control in her life, so she tries to control mine and treats me how my dad treats her when he’s bad. She compares me to her sister she hates and doesn’t speak to. Then my mom lies about me to my sisters, making them hate me and never speak to me…

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