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i feel like no matter how hard i try to love myself i just don’t. i compare myself to others and how they have what i want and it’s just not an good feeling
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Anonymous 4d

I think a lot of us have felt the same way too, it sucks so bad. nobod actually has a perfect life or perfect body and we’re all so critical of ourselves trying to be something that doesn’t even exist irl when I start comparing myself to other people, try to remember that I don’t know their whole life and I only see what they show me. somebody might look like they have it all on the outside, but they could still be going through hell and just keep it hidden

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Anonymous 4d

so real i fear 💔💔

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Anonymous 4d

I think about things people have and how they got them

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Anonymous replying to -> mentallyillsharkie 4d

i tey to talk to my friends about it but they are just like your beautiful but then go to compliment a girls body or how pretty she is and idk it just feels degrading

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Anonymous replying to -> mentallyillsharkie 4d

i think i seek validation too much and it’s rough when i feel ugly and not worthy of being me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

I don’t necessarily despise myself but I question just how much work it really is and how intimidating it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

for me it’s more about how i look. i am in the gym but i also struggle with eating rn so its hard to see my progress when i cant bring myself to eat food. i also get those moments where im like im pretty so how come i dont have a man but then im like in my room depressed cause im ugly

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