Confessions on Sidechat | hate to potentially sound like a pick me but i think if women let go of the fairytale idea of men, it would reduce the stress or anger that comes from a man disappointing or failing you. remove gender in interactions and your judgement will be leveled

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Confessions 20h

hate to potentially sound like a pick me but i think if women let go of the fairytale idea of men, it would reduce the stress or anger that comes from a man disappointing or failing you. remove gender in interactions and your judgement will be leveled

Anonymous 20h

BECOME BISEXUAL LADIESSS!!!!

Anonymous 19h

Nah always surround yourself with people who meet your expectations, they’re out there, don’t settle

Anonymous 17h

I don’t have a fairytale idea of men. Not going to stop me from being angry or disappointed in a man that doesn’t uphold his claimed values. Or wants a mother not a partner. The bar may be ground level, but if some coward wants to tunnel and build a basement I’m going to call him a fucking coward. Lackluster people don’t get off because “people aren’t fairytales”.

Anonymous 12h

Lol this is giving I’ve been struggling to maintain relationships because I don’t wanna grow and be a better man so women need to lower their standards

Anonymous

#1 20h

well no because women can be disappointing too😭

Anonymous

#2 18h

I’m sorry but I’ve seen some people looking for like a fanfic millionaire who can read their mind and basically has superpowers 💀 that’s just not happening

Anonymous

#2 18h

you didn’t get the point of this post if that’s the conclusion you came to.

Anonymous

#4 17h

Also, if you assume all men will be disappointing because some men are you’re undercutting the ones that aren’t. I have high expectations & I’m ok if men can’t live up to them. I will find one that does.

Anonymous

#4 16h

who said anything about lackluster people? the whole point is that people aren’t fairytales and expecting them to be perfect is what causes the anger. even the man you choose who is good and does what you want, he’s not gonna meet every need or want 100% and expecting that from anybody is what causes that anger. the whole point is to let go of the fairytale to REDUCE the anger. if you don’t idealize men then this post simply wasn’t for you…?😭

Anonymous

#5 11h

Right??? That’s how I read it!

Anonymous

#5 6h

“hate to potentially sound like a pick me” and you got that conclusion?😭