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Confessions 23h
Idk who needs to hear this but even if you think you are fat and the ugliest person in the world fake that confidence especially when dating. You need to act like you are the most handsome/ beautiful person ever it make u more attractive. Mini story⬇️
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Anonymous 22h

Yeah can’t do that cause then I’ll get made fun of for thinking I’m hot shit when I’m really not

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Anonymous 22h

Storytime! Part 1- I met a guy online I thought he was so fine and I was so excited to match with him. He is a bigger guy but I never cared like I don’t have a preference of body type it doesn’t bother me personally. I lowkey liked it because I thought his body just suits him so well yk anyways we started talking talking and I quickly realized he was a bit insecure about his body which I mean is 100% okay but you don’t wanna seem insecure to a girl you’re getting with but

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Anonymous 15h

Yeah, nah, I’m good with just not saying shit and leaving class ASAP.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Part 2 buuut I reassured him that i wouldn’t have been interested if I thought what he thinks about himself yk and long story short he was just complaining a lot and saying I don’t really like him because he’s a big boy and all that bs anyways I kept going and I asked him out and he said okay and he planned to come see me and whatever then on the day he doesn’t show up, I’m obviously pissed but I gave grace. We planned another date, he doesn’t show up again and as usual he apologizes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Part 3 he was an hour away so I gave him grace but this time I was in his town and like 15-20 minutes away and we planned another date a meet up he doesn’t come he kept making excuses that he admitted later on was a lie and that he was scared that I won’t like him and I had to call things off unfortunately. LET PEOPLE DECIDE WHETHER THEY WILL LIKE YOU OR NOT. Stop deciding that for them ahead of time. I’m still so sad about that because I truly saw him as being my future boyfriend.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Part 4 I understand being insecure I am too but nothing is more attractive than confidence. Even when I think I’m not as good as I wanna look, when I’m with a guy I fake that confidence and it makes me appreciate myself more. Stuff like this happen with us girls too and I just wanna encourage you guys that there are people who will love and appreciate you for who you are. Let them choose that and don’t choose for them that they don’t want you.

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