Anonymous #1 22h

You’ll notice “if you cannot tell the difference you are part of the problem” was not a gendered statement. It is very telling you demanded it be made one by making it that way yourself

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Anonymous #1 20h

Yes women can be terrible people and they will weaponize anything against men because they hate men. Literally scroll through confessions every week and you’ll see the regular “ I hate men” posts. According to them misandry doesn’t exist but misogyny is very real. Your comment will keep getting downvoted because they want to control the narrative. The issue of women never getting approached will become more prevalent and mail order brides will be the future.

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It is arbitrary, but to me it’s anything that is obviously unwanted/disrespects usual social boundaries but hasn’t crossed the threshold into harassment. Cold approach? Fine! Cold approaching someone clearly involved in a group of people and deep in conversation with them by trying to interrupt that conversation and demand attention? Creepy. Using your body to corner them into the convo? Creepy. Starting with a weird explicit statement? Creepy, but not quite harassment

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she gave an example. don’t approach someone if they’re busy with something/talking to someone else

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It’s vague because it’s subjective, we’ve already established that. If you’re here to argue for the sake of arguing we can do that but don’t act like you’re genuinely having a good faith conversation by demanding an objective fact out of an opinion. It’s situational. there’s no one solid definition that will encompass every creepy situation. Just generally, anything that crosses a social line without crossing a legal one is creepy

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yeah bc social boundaries differ across cultures/relationships/environments. the social boundaries of a concert are very different than what you’d find in an office environment. do you really think having the definition would be more useful than getting an example?

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Anonymous #4 20h

i want to study you like a bug

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Anonymous #2 20h

Fuck off creep

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Anonymous #4 20h

Perhaps you aren’t single due to your failure of cold approaches, but instead the fact you believe women being human trafficked and forced to fuck you is a valid form of relationship

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Anonymous #4 20h

pspspspspsps

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Anonymous OP 20h

Sounds like something out of your imagination.

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Anonymous #4 20h

📝 subject doesn’t realize he’s telling on himself

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Anonymous #2 20h

📝 subject is delusional

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Anonymous #4 20h

:( you’re not even creative enough to come up with your own jokes omg

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Anonymous #4 20h

you have to be put down there’s just no quality of life #sad

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Anonymous #2 20h

Waiting for the mail in comebacks to arrive

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Anonymous #2 20h

I don’t put in effort for trolling

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Anonymous #2 20h

📝 subject is both delusional and hostile

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Anonymous #4 20h

mama you wrote a whole paragraph on how women are evil you can’t use that excuse 😭

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Anonymous #2 20h

📝 subject exhibits a lack of comprehension. Perhaps stunted development or some form of indoctrination may have occurred.

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Anonymous #4 20h

aw you’re even using the emoji still #myinfluence

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Anonymous #2 20h

📝 subject experiences delusion in ranked mode

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Anonymous #4 20h

us rn #myminime

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📝 subject’s delusion may in fact impact quality of life

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Anonymous #4 20h

wait noo i forgot to caption it and had to delete it :( reply to the right one

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yeah it’s subjective in that what’s ‘normal’ behavior changes from place to place, but basic decency and respect doesn’t. cat calling someone is never okay regardless of where you are. interrupting someone who’s in a convo/busy with something to flirt with them also isn’t okay. ig a better way to put it would be to just treat people with respect but im ngl i thought that was already assumed lol

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It’s not wrong to feel creeped out by how someone is treating me, and choose to reject them for that reason, actually. You’re not entitled to me thinking highly of you just because you didn’t break the law when you spoke to me

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not really. im saying its normal to scream and yell when you’re excited during a concert and that’s ‘normal’, but just bc that’s socially acceptable there doesn’t mean it’s universally okay. treating people with respect (for the millionth time - not interrupting, not taking no for an answer, etc) is never okay. as long as men don’t behave like that they’re fine

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If you can't read the room and persist in an uncomfortable behavior while the surrounding people are clearly made uncomfortable by it then you will be labeled a weirdo. That applies to all social interaction, not just approaching women 🤷‍♀️ Sorry no one can explain to you how you can read the room exactly to a science each time over a yikyak comment. It's a life skill.

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tbh if they weren’t respectful i might. cultural differences aren’t an excuse for that

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Anonymous #6 19h

exactly!!

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yeah? that shouldn’t be shocking to you. that’s part of being respectful. if i’m talking to someone and they’re giving one word answers/not engaging, the respectful thing to do is to stop talking to them bc obviously they don’t want a convo with me

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Anonymous OP 18h

it wasn’t, but the initial “Dear men” did indeed apply that statement to men

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Anonymous #2 16h

Wait what is this thing

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Anonymous #2 16h

This looks sick i want one

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Reading the room is part of being respectful, dumbass. Did your mama teach you NOTHING????

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I defined creepy. It’s not my fault you don’t like the perfectly reasonable explanation. You’re looking for someone to validate your shitty behavior and it’s not gonna happen here buster

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Point to me the place where I said you should know it. Go on, show me.

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Where are those words anywhere

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Today I learned it’s narrow minded to feel creeped out when a man in appropriately pursues me. How shameful of me :(

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So uh. Im not in this screenshot

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I am AuDHD. So is my fiancé. Also, you have to take responsibility for your disabilities. If you can’t understand social cues, YOU have to come up with a plan to insure you’re not harming others because of that. Like avoiding sexual comments or explicitly requesting consent. Your gotcha won’t work here fam

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If open and educational conversation gives you an ick maybe it’s because you’re being called out for poor behavior and need to reflect internally

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Not that I tally my friends of minority or other statuses, but 3 foreign who live abroad and always have, 4 immigrants, and countless who are from different cultures than me. and before you go there, I’m a supporter of moral relativity, but I know people from places where smacking a [strangers] woman’s ass to flirt is appropriate. Doesn’t make it ok here

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No I didn’t put words in your mouth. I clarified what was creepy. You assumed I meant anything I didn’t like was creepy. Which was untrue. You assumed much more about me than I did of you

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Exactly. It was weird because you didn’t know each other that well yet. Which is why some behaviors that may be fine in some contexts can be creepy in other contexts.

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Not from the beginning. Only after you got defensive about pretty acceptable claims of creepy behavior.

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