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Men, it’s okay for you to be vulnerable
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Anonymous 18h

Thanks I appreciate that

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Anonymous 16h

I’m dying in my apartment and the world just wants more money from me

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Anonymous 10h

#1 got hurt and is deflecting.

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Anonymous 18h

No it isn’t. Because then yall gonna say be a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Dude don’t project your insecurities onto people who’ve done you no wrong yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

Aight bro go ahead and tell her your feelings 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

I’m scared about the future, I don’t take care of my health and it makes me afraid I’ll die young from heart complications. There, I shared my feelings, but here’s the thing, even if someone ridiculed me for having them and sharing it, I wouldn’t give a fuck because I don’t need other people’s validation to feel secure with myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

As you shouldn’t. Just know she will view you different. And you shouldn’t give fuck about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Do you truly believe that? Like do you think my gf thinks less of me because I’ve opened up about that and lots of other things to her? I promise you she doesn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

Only she knows

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

I asked, she laughed and told me to tell you you’re stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

I mean he’s not wrong typically. There is this made up rule about how men should be men and when they are seen crying, being scared, or anything “not manly” it gives women the ick and all that. Both things can be true at the same time btw. It’s ok to open up but to say men aren’t judged for it is ignorant just as much as it is wrong. That’s why men’s mental health needs to be acknowledged. Even women on here joke about it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

As a gf, we most certainly do not! I love comforting my bf and letting him know it’s gonna be okay

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