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Confessions 16h
My parents make me feel like shit every time we have a conversation. I want to cut them off so fucking bad but I still someone depend on them financially. I’m so frustrated and upset about it but I don’t feel like there’s really anything I can do.
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Anonymous 16h

As a former child that once thought the same thing, and realized even when they knew I wanted to cut them off(tbh they all know) and still willing to support you financially . Take a step back have a adult conversation with them about what’s bothering you and work you ass off so they see you are trying to support yourself

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Anonymous 12h

im in the same boat and keeping my mouth shut lmao

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Anonymous 16h

can you dm me please? I’m in the same boat and I need a friend who gets it

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Anonymous 16h

Re evaluate what you said after stating you depend on the financially. If you feel that way then try to think of how they feel about things as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

She said somewhat like groceries and meals

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Anonymous replying to -> qtieee 16h

So you mean to food to survive? Seems reasonable to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

okay but someone shouldn’t be obligated to see their abusive parent’s perspective when they are frequently met with fear, mental and psychological trauma, and a lack of respect and safety around their parents just because their parents don’t completely starve them and bc their parents pay for the house.

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Anonymous replying to -> qtieee 16h

I didn’t say anything of the above at all. You just chatting own

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

The only thing they’re paying for, is my rent right now. I’m paying for everything else (phone, car, insurance, groceries, etc).

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

So they paying for a roof over your head?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

Yeah, that’s the only thing. Them “paying for a roof over my head” isn’t a good reason for me to stay in a position where I’m miserable though. The way you said that, or the way I interpreted it at least, seems very dismissive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

The real world is going to hit u hard just wait

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