Anonymous #10 1d

100% and I don’t care what side of the fence you are on. I can disagree with you, but still treat you like a human being. Honestly, if you treat anyone different because they don’t think the same way you do, I hope you step on legos every time you get out of bed

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Women are more emotionally expressive. Treating people with basic kindness isn’t wrong in my eyes

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Anonymous #7 1d

You’re against constructive criticism?

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Anonymous #16 1d

But we definitely have to be nicer to everyone, I’m just confused

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Anonymous #6 1d

i meant im not open to constructive criticism on this particular opinion😭 i didn’t mean you shouldn’t give women constructive criticism

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Anonymous #7 1d

ignorance is bliss

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Anonymous #15 1d

respect should be given until the person proves they are not worthy of it

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Anonymous #16 1d

once again I meant that i myself am not open to constructive criticism on this particular take, not that you shouldn’t give women constructive criticism lol

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Anonymous OP 1d

Oh I see, mb wording was a bit confusing at first 😅

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Anonymous #10 1d

i agree!

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Anonymous #7 1d

what are you saying brother

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Anonymous #21 1d

Beautiful

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Anonymous #20 1d

Exactly like some gender roles are purely true just based on our different genetics. Men are protectors and women are better with children - doesn’t mean both can’t do either, but it is our biology at the end of the day

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Anonymous #17 1d

Nah facts everyone mean

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Anonymous #18 1d

soooo.. be less like you

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Anonymous #10 1d

Real, I follow this worldview

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Anonymous #2 1d

Honestly, yeah I agree

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Anonymous #26 1d

i didn’t say i was?

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Anonymous #35 1d

Hell no, ima be myself. It’s not my responsibility to make you feel safer. That’s a personal problem.

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Anonymous #31 1d

It’s one thing if you’re family or a special other.

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Anonymous #31 1d

I hope that in every scenario you encounter where you need a little more consideration than the average person in order to get by or be happy, everyone around you tells you its your problem and to go fuck yourself.

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Anonymous #27 1d

that is actually still crazy to say!! idk how that stance relates to OPs at all

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Anonymous #35 1d

You don’t my history but I have never had any consideration from a baby till now. I have done everything myself and still turned out js as good as people with two parent households. People need to quit being sensitive bitches and man up. With all due respect.

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Anonymous #27 1d

i understand what you are getting at but i feel like respect might be the wrong word since respect should be given regardless of gender. but maybe id say men should be treated with dignity as women should be treated with gentleness. bc i think they are both something that shouldn’t be taken away regardless of the humans behavior. if a woman is a bitch, that doesn’t mean you can be rough with her. and if a guy is a jerk, that doesn’t mean he deserves to treated without humanity.

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Anonymous #31 1d

Sounds like you don’t want anyone to have it better because you’re bitter you had it bad. The attitude “I didn’t get this so why should you” is selfish and does nothing but hold everyone back from a better future. Maybe go to therapy and work out why you think others should be miserable just because you were 💖

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Anonymous #27 1d

I don’t think so considering not all men deserve respect in the first place 💀

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Anonymous #31 1d

“Done everything myself” You lived on a farm w no electricity, never bought food, never used filtered water or tap water? Everything you have in life is bc of other human beings, you’ve never done anything truly alone and if you had to you would likely die. The whole point of us living in societies is to support each other.

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Anonymous OP 1d

and ofc this is not to say that women should treated without dignity and men without gentleness. but if you’re looking for something to parallel my original statement, i would say maybe dignity would be a good word. bc personally i see men as being the side of society that are strong and leaders. i think those things require a dignified person

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Anonymous #35 1d

No was homeless for a hot minute. Always looking from the outside in. Find out how alone you are in this world when you have no one

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Anonymous #31 1d

And how did you escape that situation? By building a house and growing your food? No? Again, you had the support of a society of people. You weren’t alone in the Amazon trying to make it. Anyone who struggles like you claimed to should want nothing more than for no one else to ever have to experience anything similar, anyway. Maybe grow from your experiences instead of becoming bitter.

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Lowkey feminism is a joke now. Doesn’t even support black women.

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ngl ima nigga and if you yelling at me ova sum dumb shii ima jaw yo ahh

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Anonymous #31 1d

it quite literally is your responsibility to make people feel safe around you and to act in a safe way, idk wtf you’re on about… who else’s responsibility would that be????

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Anonymous #38 1d

Nothing but truth

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Anonymous #30 1d

But chivalry means you’re not treating women like men.

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Anonymous #40 1d

please don’t be rough with a woman because you don’t find her attractive… that’s disgusting behavior.

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Anonymous #26 1d

this is a very weird thing to say in response to this post, especially that OP is talking about ALL women, not just herself…

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Anonymous #37 1d

No it’s not my job to make you feel safe, it’s my responsibility to make my family safe even at your expense, if need be.

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Anonymous #37 1d

Blah blah blah I speak for the trees blah blah blah

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Anonymous #39 1d

No you’re probably a suburban white dude tbh

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Anonymous #31 1d

this is a weird thing to say. nobody is threatening your family

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Anonymous #37 1d

Did not some fake ups workers not walk up in a families home and murder them. You’re delusional. That could be you, me, anyone.

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Anonymous #33 1d

…you shouldn’t treat women with kindness and respect and gentleness because they’re competing with you in the job market????? are you listening to yourself 😭😭

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you lack self control

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Anonymous #37 1d

Be fr. You wouldn’t be around men if you were so scared of them. Quit the victim mentality

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Anonymous #31 1d

Imagine complaining about a violent crime committed by men then saying men being more considerate and better people in general wouldn’t help that sort of thing happen less

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Anonymous #43 1d

Nah. I’m can control it well but there’s the rare occasions you just got to raise your voice on a dumbass doing something terrible.

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Anonymous #31 1d

aside from a few close guy friends i have had for years i generally avoid men. i’ve been stalked before. so no, i don’t want to be around them.

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Anonymous #35 1d

Obviously it’s not the same people

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Anonymous #31 1d

Seems to be agreeing with the original sentiment

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Anonymous #3 1d

hmm i’m always willing to meet people in the middle but if you’re liking videos that are racist homophobic sexist ect. or find jokes like that funny and voted for trump i don’t care to hear u out at all. kindness is a gift i’ll give u till u prove ur not worthy of it anymore.

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Anonymous #40 1d

???????

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Anonymous #33 1d

what?

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Anonymous #37 1d

no wtf. I’m not saying men should be dickheads to women, but your going to get treated how you treat ppl. And that’s the bottom line. Your not entitled to shi just bc ur a woman

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Anonymous #26 1d

you actually didn’t say any of that in your originally post. all you said was “you’re not special” which doesn’t really tell us much other than that you sound like an asshole

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Anonymous #29 1d

shut up

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Anonymous #48 1d

THANK YOU

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Anonymous #3 1d

Doesn’t that statement imply that you would be treating someone else differently?

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Anonymous #37 1d

Key word guy friends. So quit the cap.

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Anonymous #31 1d

key phrase known for years. i know they specifically are good people. i never said all men, i said most men

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Anonymous #31 1d

i don’t need to justify my trauma and resulting hesitancy to you

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Anonymous #37 1d

Quit embarrassing yourself by saying all men. Women abuse kids more than men. You don’t me saying that women need to be psychologically tested before having children

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Anonymous #28 1d

Well were u screaming first.

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Anonymous #31 1d

i quite literally just said before i didn’t say all men. you’re just reading whatever you want to read

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Anonymous #37 1d

It’s called rage baiting

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Anonymous #31 1d

Ongod yall call slapping men putting them in their place but when men do it it’s called abuse

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Anonymous #31 1d

after reading these replies it seems like you have some built up trauma and anger and now it’s directed at women asking for gentle behavior. this is especially clear with how hostile you’re being and immediately trying to guilt trip people into feeling bad for you because of your past as soon as they disagree with you, to the point where ur responses aren’t even talking abt the main point anymore 😭ur trying to seek sympathy for ur past but can’t give sympathy to women who want to feel safe😭

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Anonymous #50 1d

No literally? Acting like his ass wouldn’t have LOVED some consideration from others when he was struggling, then looking down on women for asking for the same

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Anonymous #35 1d

Well if I can do what I did without why can’t u do it Keith

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Anonymous #31 1d

so i’m assuming u don’t have a job

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Anonymous #31 1d

With

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Anonymous #31 1d

why are you “rage baiting” in the same sentence you’re talking about child abuse???

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Anonymous #31 1d

just bc u suffered doesn’t mean the whole world should suffer too😭 that saying that men go through pain and take their wraith out on the whole word sounds correct rn

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Anonymous #37 1d

Jus proving the point that men lack compassion

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Anonymous #47 1d

good!

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Anonymous #50 1d

Most men don’t get compassion from anyone but their families

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Anonymous #31 1d

if this is how you treat society i can only wonder why

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Anonymous #13 1d

Already am since we’re typing

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Anonymous #37 1d

Crazy opinion, I think people shouldn’t be treated better based on what demographic they belong to. Hot take, everyone should be treated equally well regardless of their gender

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Anonymous #37 1d

I think you can use context to figure out what “Youre not special” means 🤣. Cmon we not in elementary anymore, post like these are why some women gotta be humbled cause you let your egos get to big because a couple people said you looked pretty and now you want everyone to say it. ew

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Anonymous #47 1d

i agree that people should be treated with kindness and respect regardless of demographic. unfortunately, may men are rough with everyone. i think it is especially important that they are not rough with women in particular, as they are not typically able to physically protect themselves as well. that is what this post is manly about

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Anonymous #39 1d

You’re definitely not Black. 😭😭 Why are you typing like that?

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I’m a poc too (Black). Maybe my experience is different because I’m a woman, but they’re usually nice to me. I don’t scream at the racist ones I encounter, but I do respond so they think twice before doing it again. And if some kids called you a slur, would you stop being gentle with all of them too? Just wondering.

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Anonymous #52 1d

…what are you even talking about… nobody is asking you to call them pretty…

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Anonymous #37 1d

That’s fine, but the way this post is worded is “treat me extra special bc I’m a woman so I deserve it”

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Anonymous #47 1d

that’s not what i got from what OP is saying, but if you did tbh that makes sense. i hope the stance at least makes some sense tho

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Anonymous #52 1d

Just saying “Women need to be nicer to me because I am a girl” sounds like “I want princess treatment just because I exist” and legitimately speaking, who wouldn’t want that? The problem isnt in wanting it, the problem is sounding entitled af, that’s where guys don’t want to do basic things like being nice because people make it out to sound like their entitled to what you say and do. So a post like “Men should be nice to me because I’m a girl” is never seen how it should be.

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Anonymous #52 1d

Gotta say uh have a point

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Anonymous #31 1d

huh

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Anonymous #31 1d

And as a black male I want my women protected.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Are you sure dignity is the right word?

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Anonymous #37 1d

stfu females are trifling can’t have it both ways yall want females to be treated like queens no that shit is earned. i’m not just gone respect you out of nowhere and ion expect females to respect me out of nowhere. It has to be earned just like respect and trust

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Anonymous #15 1d

you saying “females” speaks louder than anything else

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Anonymous OP 1d

stfu

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Anonymous #15 1d

so clearly my respect towards you has now been revoked bc u just showed me you don’t deserve it. thank you for providing an example

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Anonymous plumps 1d

No disrespect, but you just said a whole lot of nothing

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Anonymous #31 1d

No way

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Anonymous #31 1d

facts

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Anonymous plumps 1d

Oh yes bbl

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Anonymous #40 1d

😂😂

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Anonymous #32 1d

😂😂

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Anonymous #31 1d

Did you js call me a brazilian butt lift? Nahhh im ddl

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Anonymous #15 1d

Yea this generation is cooked

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Anonymous #31 1d

🤓

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Anonymous #61 1d

Um have you the filth coming out of women’s mouth nowadays. I wouldn’t be polite either.

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Anonymous #61 1d

Needs to be nicer to each other for real I think men just don’t care how they act towards women if they’re not interested them in a romantic way which is the main difference between men and women. Men are only interested in one thing unfortunately. Don’t get my wrong I know women who’s brains work that way as well tho so once again everyone needs to just be nicer to each other the world would be a much happier place

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Anonymous #37 1d

Op specifically made a post talking about how she should be treated “specifically”highly above others because she is a woman. Then #26 said “you aren’t special” and you said that she isn’t asking for special treatment, when the whole point of the post is literally asking for special treatment for JUST women. And if they aren’t asking you to call them pretty then what are they asking for huh? Tell us what this treatment entails.

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Anonymous #52 1d

Pay the rent, pay for shopping, at their beck and call 24/7 and never ask for anything. And god forbid you say 50/50 around them. Even though that’s literally what they fought for

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Anonymous #61 1d

if a random person not opening or holding a door for you bothers you, I think you might need to work on your expectations of literal strangers

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Anonymous #31 1d

They’re now realizing that they received better treatment than men did. Instead of admitting this, they’re trying to reclaim the special treatment they used to receive while maintaining the current privileges they have

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Anonymous #52 1d

Right?!

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Anonymous #37 1d

i mean if you want to be an equal in the public sphere and the workforce you shouldn’t expect special treatment in private life. it’s kind of a fair point

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Anonymous #61 1d

i mean men should just be nice which is a separate problem but they shouldn’t be nicer to you because you are a woman specifically

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Anonymous #31 1d

I don’t think some of them understand the fact that everyone lives their own lives, and for some to not be the center of someone elses attention or a gesture of courtesy annoys them. When I hold a door open I just hold it open, I don’t expect anything in return and I just do it because I felt like it. The problem is when people demand it and get upset when someone doesn’t say thank you or the expect it like gtfo here.

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Anonymous #52 1d

I once went with my brother to a Circle K at like 2am and when i approached the door a woman walking up to it from inside literally stopped right infront and waited for me to open it for her. I literally just walked straight through her and my brother opened it up for her to walk through, had she not literally stopped infront the door I would have had no problem letting her walk through but that entitlement of expectations from literal strangers is not something i put up with.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Respect should be given to all people unless proven unworthy of it, and in cases of people with entitlement problems like these it’s probably a good example of exactly where someone would’nt respect the OP.

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Anonymous #48 1d

Believe it or not some women want their men to go out of their way to be nice to other women or perform acts of service to other women. Something i recently found out with a yt girl that I would never hear from a chocolate baddie. They see it as good that if he treats other women also good then other women in return will see that he is likely good to her, so maybe it’s a performative thing? The problem with this is that if you actually did it, your gf would get pissed off or jealous so idk.

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Anonymous #54 1d

Spot on

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Anonymous #31 1d

50/50 is a joke to the wrong woman but if you lay that pipe down good enough she’ll start paying your bills brotha ask me how I know.

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Anonymous #52 1d

How you know?

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Anonymous #54 1d

I think this is a good sum of what they really say, the main problem being that you can’t have your cake and eat it too, something has to be given to be taken. Equivalent law of attraction of course

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Anonymous #52 1d

Teach me your ways.

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Anonymous #52 1d

Valid reaction

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Anonymous #50 1d

Or you just read a lot into a little acting like you’ve known me my whole life.

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Anonymous #37 1d

Nobody get mad when men are called male, why are you sooo sensitive about that. Grow up

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Anonymous #65 1d

would that change the amount of weight you put on my opinion?

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Anonymous #11 1d

You mentioned men’s responsibilities due to biology. What do you think are some responsibilities women should have due to biological differences? I believe in equality (not necessarily equity), but I’m open to hear your point of view

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Anonymous OP 1d

It will change the amount of weight you put on the scale, oink oink

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Anonymous #65 1d

lmao you deleted your old comment bc you thought of a better one. it’s cool we can pretend you got it first time around

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Anonymous OP 1d

Oink oink

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Anonymous OP 1d

idc how u feel honestly

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Anonymous #53 1d

crazy u tryna tell me ian black lousiana born and raised how niggas chat down south but coo

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Anonymous #37 1d

I’m saying that’s why it’s happening at a societal level. Not once did I imply an ought. You should practice your reading skills.

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Anonymous #3 1d

You’re contradicting yourself here

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Anonymous #14 1d

I’m saying this

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Anonymous #37 1d

Literally!! And I avoid men outside of my family and friend group

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Anonymous #68 1d

yeah, if a guy was noticeably gentler with me compared to men then I’d feel patronized. automatically treating me differently because of my gender is quite literally anti-feminist 💀

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Anonymous #72 1d

exactly.

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Anonymous #40 1d

And you’re uglier with your personality 🥰

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Anonymous #71 1d

Well let me rephrase she’s not ugly, YOU are

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Anonymous #71 1d

Shi mid asf replyin to urself 😭

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Anonymous #41 1d

No ♥️

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Anonymous #73 1d

And I said what I said. Lame reply

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Anonymous #74 1d

Ur the problem!

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Anonymous #71 1d

Dumb asf

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Anonymous #40 1d

That’s and that is literally the fucking problem!!!!!! Like hello just because you wouldn’t wanna fuck someone doesn’t mean they don’t deserve respect.

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Anonymous #61 1d

U don’t get special treatment for being a woman then yall aren’t equal. U earn how people treat u

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Anonymous #74 1d

You earn it. You’re not a man if you’re a fuckboy

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Anonymous #31 1d

Well what if she wasn’t. Then what.

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Anonymous #39 1d

You aren’t. The way your words are structured is a poorly designed caricature of how Black people type. Digital blackface is quite common nowadays, so you can’t blame me for not believing you. 🤷🏾‍♀️

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Anonymous #53 1d

Dude, black people as a whole have got to stop stereotyping their own people just because we don’t speak a specific way with our words. Shit like this is when you start resenting your own people.

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Anonymous #9 1d

unfortunately it's not

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Anonymous #15 1d

females is so insane to me BUT respect should be both ways regardless if you know them or not, that's like basic human decency. trust sure has to be earned. respect tho.. you can be respectful unless someone gets disrespectful with you THATS when you leave it

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Anonymous #76 1d

Nobody gvies a shi whether its female or male bruh, whoever made up the word probably said it and it was just a banger then a woman came by and had to demoralize it, it doesn’t make it any better than what’s following the sentence either because its garunteed to be worse than just that singular word

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Anonymous #52 1d

so everything else i said went over your head? i know how the term female got here but that's nor here or there

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Anonymous #76 1d

i agree 100%. respect is a default, trust is earned. respect is only lost if there’s a reason

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Anonymous #47 1d

I have not experienced nice men so 💀

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Anonymous #71 1d

74 spitting facts

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Anonymous #38 1d

do you think i don’t want you to defend yourself?

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Anonymous #31 1d

If you suffered so much doing it why would you want others to experience that same pain? Must not have been that bad.

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Anonymous #35 1d

You couldn’t even imagine. I would NEVER wish that on anyone.

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Anonymous #19 1d

“men are protectors” my ass 😭 r we in 300 BC or smth

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Anonymous #45 1d

So u wouldn’t hear out 60 percent of voters?

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Anonymous #66 1d

I mean, I’m moreso speaking of pure physical capacity. I have no real expectation of gender roles or anything like that for either sex/gender, just that if you’re a bigger, stronger person you need to be gentler and more patient because you have a large capacity for destruction. I’m of the opinion that women and men have no inherent responsibilities based on their gender, but moreso based on their sex and physical capacity

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Anonymous #11 1d

Yeah I could agree with that. Maybe phrasing it as any *individual* should act in respect to their strength would be more accurate

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Anonymous #66 1d

Yeah that’s fair, I feel like I phrased it a lil oddly lol

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Anonymous #11 1d

Surprised we managed to agree on Yik Yak LOL. Seeing other comments straight up insulting each other definitely lowered my expectations 😭 Happy Holidays!

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Anonymous #66 1d

lol happy holidays! Thanks for giving me a chance to explain myself lollll

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Anonymous #31 1d

Hey, so, most of us still want 50/50

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Anonymous OP 1d

CLOCKED

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Anonymous #80 1d

Sure.

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Anonymous #32 1d

gross asf

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Anonymous #54 1d

Better treatment? Believe it or not, some of us would rather actually doing things with our life than being put up with everything we need like a prized cow.

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Anonymous #80 1d

Some of you. Yall are rare

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Anonymous #33 1d

Maybe we should move to a collaborative model over a competitive one. It’d be a hell of a lot more productive.

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Anonymous #34 1d

Yes, but you don’t get to choose how others treat you, you get to choose how you live your life and respond to how others treat you.

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Anonymous #80 1d

Yh probably

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Anonymous #31 1d

Thanks for introducing my 23 year old ass to new textspeak

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Anonymous #80 1d

the men under this post are actually weirdos.. yall are sitting here talking about "youre not special" bitch i am special now what? why would you treat me the same you do to your guy friends? just a little more respect. we are not "one of the guys"

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Anonymous #76 1d

80 i didn't mean to reply to yours specifically.

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Anonymous #80 1d

Ur welcome. Sometimes I struggle too

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Anonymous #76 1d

U don’t deserve more respect from me. I don’t you. And I definitely treat the guys better than I would you. They’ve earned my deepest respect years ago. Just like I’m sure you treat ur girl friends better than random strangers. Quit the hypocrisy

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Anonymous #76 1d

everyone a feminist until it stops benefiting them 🫩 you’re no better than a man

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Anonymous #31 1d

All of my fellow female friends are the same as me with this, we don’t seem that rare to me. What circles are you spending your time in?

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Anonymous #72 1d

But you won’t hear a women say that. Anything but the accountability they try to force on everybody else.

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Anonymous #80 1d

The normal ones.

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Anonymous #31 1d

Dude that’s not normal. Out of everyone I know, I know of THREE women like that.

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Anonymous #80 1d

Then join the mainstream population.

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Anonymous #31 1d

If that’s mainstream, I want nothing to do with it. It sounds horrible. Luckily, it’s not mainstream, at least not in my part of the country.

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Anonymous #76 1d

grow up talking about clocked😂😂at yo big ass age

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Anonymous #15 1d

Crazy working

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Anonymous #52 1d

I’m sceptical for no reason. Read their first comment. Does the fact that they referred to themself as the n-word not strike you as strange? Also, I am someone who has been called whitewashed for my personality. I am no stranger to that kind of treatment, but in this case, I simply don’t believe them.

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Anonymous #53 1d

*I’m not sceptical for no reason.

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Anonymous #53 1d

No it doesn’t strike me as weird nigga you pressed.

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Anonymous #70 1d

For sure

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Anonymous #1 1d

how is it not 😭

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Anonymous #82 1d

it is, some people are just genuinely coping. OP at least admitted it but the comments are just lying to make themselves feel better for a shitty opinion 🫩

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Anonymous #31 1d

Just because someone has a few guy friends or even a boyfriend does not mean they cannot be scared of men tf you talking about? I have a bf and am scared to be around most men because of trauma and sometimes I don’t even like my bf touching me because of it but i still want him in my life but i avoid interactions with other men whenever i can because i have panic attacks. You obviously know nothing about trauma and it’s easy to tell youre a man.

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Anonymous #79 1d

voters who support a racist pedo who raped children? no

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Anonymous #84 1d

You’re a loser if you bro g politics into everything. Not everybody cares who you voted for and not everyone even votes so what’s the point of dismissing a significant percentage of the population for something liberals specifically support: individual autonomy. You only stunt your own personal and mental growth when you can’t reasonably hear out another side of an issue with throwing a tantrum and it looks bad on you while making the other person or side seem smarter.

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Anonymous #31 1d

Maturing is realizing that just because everyone wont agree with doesn’t mean they’re less than you.

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Anonymous #31 1d

A whole lot of nothing.

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Anonymous #71 1d

And you just proved my point. Congratulations. You’re officially an idiot.

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Anonymous #75 1d

Then he shouldn’t have been screaming.

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Anonymous #3 1d

So even if I think abortion is wrong and that’s it’s murder, we can still be friends and treat you like a human being?

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Anonymous #79 1d

no you have to fall in line w everything i said, if u find that shit hilarious AND you voted for trump, you’re not my kinda person. i find that extremely offensive and don’t think i owe u kindness. poking fun at minorities AND voting for a president who spreads hate speech opened the door for so many unkind and ignorant acts . i know trump voters who don’t care for that shit and/or regret voting for him because of the violence he’s caused.

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Anonymous #45 1d

But you still don’t respect them right. Cause of who they voted for, right?! You do know there’s no technical right or wrong answer, it’s just a difference in opinion.

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Anonymous #31 1d

omfg what is ur problem. if you think it's funny to make fun minorities, why shouldn't i give u the same treatment? i'm not gonna be nice to you if you're not nice to everyone. and ESPECIALLY if you do those things and voted for trump. i am friends w trump supporters and hear them out all the time and meet them w kindness unless/until i find out they are not a nice person to everyone. do you get it now or do i need to rephrase it for the third time? my own brother is a trump supporter that’s-

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Anonymous #45 1d

not the problem. the problem is the two things together. vote for trump idc. vote for trump and show u lack empathy for minorities, that’s when im not gonna respect you.

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Anonymous #31 1d

It’s not just a difference in opinion. You voted against women’s rights, for the possible overturn of gay marriage, and for Israel. AGAIN ITS NOT JUST A DIFFERENCE IN OPION! You’re officially an idiot.

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Anonymous #71 1d

The difference is you hate people who think differently than you while this other person doesn’t

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Anonymous #71 1d

1. What rights do you not have that I have. 2. I could care less about gay people. 3. If Palestin can’t defend themselves then why were they a country in the first place. 4. I am a minority so why wouldn’t I be supporting minorities like myself.

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Anonymous #31 1d

Problem with a lot liberals (not all) is that they’d rather talk a lot and never just listen to what people have to say. Just cause someone disagrees with you doesn’t mean they’re wrong and ur right. It’s literally just a difference in opinion.

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Anonymous #31 1d

not my monkeys not my circus, but it’s not like Israel is self sufficient, do some research on where ur tax dollars go, and i’ll give u a hint, it’s NOT Palestine!

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Anonymous #45 1d

Oh don’t think I support Israel either. Just my opinion we should have never been involved with either them in the first place. Both are a drain on U.S. resources that could’ve been better spent on American citizens.

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Anonymous #31 1d

i wasn’t u just brought up how palestine shouldn’t be a country if they’re not self sufficient, same goes for israel, so your question is nonsense

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Anonymous #45 1d

They brought that up not me.

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Anonymous #31 1d

well they brought up israel YOU brought that if palestine can’t be self sufficient they shouldn’t be a country, you’re wrong dude just let it go 😂

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Anonymous #45 1d

Am I wrong

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Anonymous #31 1d

yes entirely and your lack of argument back kinda proves that! buy your life!!

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Anonymous #45 1d

Don’t know if I’m wrong, depends on who you ask but if you can’t defend urself than you probably shouldn’t have been a country in the first place no matter who you are. What’s the point of a government that can’t defend its own people.

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Anonymous #31 1d

palatine could defend itself against israel and israel alone. HOWEVER israel isn’t defending itself, WE are. that’s what the argument is here, if we sent the amount of aid and money we send to israel to palestine youd say the same thing abt israel. that’s the point. the two countries could defend themselves alone im sure

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Anonymous #45 1d

Yeah if we would let them. Instead we’re sending billions that could be used to improve life for our own citizens. It’s shameful that we care more about those third rate countries than our own U.S. of A.

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Anonymous #21 1d

True

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Anonymous #90 23h

While it feels nice to be treated with extra kindness, feeling nice doesn’t mean it’s not coming from problematic gender roles or sexism. Just because under this specific circumstance it happens to benefit you to be seen as weak and vulnerable, doesn’t mean it’s actually any better to be reinforcing things rooted in sexism.

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Anonymous OP 18h

Ey perfectly reasonable just wanted to check the double standard and you passed it, also I do agree with your opinion tbh and if you hold both then your being rational so gj OP.

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Anonymous #29 18h

Chill on it radical feminist

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Anonymous #37 18h

People in leading positions should be treated with more respect and people in nurturing positions should be treated with more gentleness. If you agree with OPs take and don’t agree with mine then you have a blatant double standard and you should fix it.

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Anonymous #27 16h

Well that would make sense if the person viewed men as being in a leading position. You can want to be treated with more gentleness but that doesn’t mean you have to see the other person as in a leading position. I will never see a man as a leading position cuz most of them can’t even pick up after themselves so how tf do they expect to be seen as a leader if they can’t even do basic tasks

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Anonymous #31 16h

Not saying we don’t care about the US. But at this point I gave up on this country because of the President. He does NOT care about us LMFAO

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Anonymous #34 15h

Wrong

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Anonymous #31 13h

Why are you arguing with literally everybody

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Anonymous #95 13h

He legit responds to everybody in the comments. That’s called being bored and having nothing to do

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Anonymous #31 12h

idk who needs to tell you this but. disabled people, you know one of the groups trump loves poking fun at? we still dont have marriage equality

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Anonymous #96 12h

Well both candidates were horrible, there was no right answer. And I don’t know enough about the disabled group or their supposed marriage situation to have an opinion on that.

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Anonymous #96 12h

How so?

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Anonymous #71 12h

Christmas break and I’m off rn so what else is there to do.

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Anonymous #31 12h

Idk go outside? See hometown friends? Read a book? Scroll on TikTok? Watch a movie? Binge watch a tv show? Go get food? Find something better to do than argue with strangers on fucking YikYak bro.

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Anonymous #52 10h

Calm down, it’s just an opinion. You think they’re black? Cool. I don’t, and I’ve already stated why. We can agree to disagree. :)

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Anonymous #53 10h

I hear black people call themselves that all the time?

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Anonymous #44 9h

It’s not what he’s calling himself, it’s how he’s using it. IMO, he’s either a young black/hispanic man that had no father figure in his life or a middle age racist white man. As a black woman, he doesn’t speak for real men. My father and brother wouldn’t dare put their hands on a woman or raise their voice in anger. He needs help dealing with all of that anger he’s harboring.

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Anonymous #14 9h

Dm me

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Anonymous #14 9h

You’re lowkey stereotyping but you do you ig

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Anonymous #44 9h

No, not really. First of all, I’m black and I grew up in a poor urban community. So, I’m speaking from experience and knowledge. Most of the angry black boys I grew up around had no father figure. No uncle, older brother or anything. They had no guidance, they would say and do things like the commenter here. So yeah, I’ll do me ig.

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Anonymous #14 9h

If you’re a black women how can you possibly think you can speak for black men. You would be mad if a black man said something like this so why would you say that? Honest question. Are we fr rn?

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Anonymous #31 9h

Dm me

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Anonymous #83 8h

We’re assuming actually normal and competent human beings in this argument. Also this goes both ways so don’t generalize. I know women who are slobs but it wouldn’t be fair for me to assume all women are the same.

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Anonymous #83 8h

Yeah this goes both ways and you haven’t even known most men so how you can you even say that. You sound real stupid when you make generalizations like that. Hope you don’t talk like that.

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Anonymous OP 8h

What you’re describing is 100% sexism. Everyone should be treated with dignity and gentleness regardless of who they are. The way you treat others is how you should be treated, so someone being violent will be met with violence and someone being kind should be met with kindness. Not based on someone being a man or a woman.

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Anonymous #93 5h

Then you aren’t a feminist 💀 you could agree with different aspects of feminism but the core belief is that men and women shouldn’t be treated differently and women shouldn’t be seen as weaker or delicate but just as people.

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Anonymous #31 4h

I wouldn’t be mad actually. Especially if that man is speaking from a place of knowledge like I am. I come from a big family. I’m around a good amount of males, young and old. I went to public school, surrounded by black people. Had male friends, relationships etc. So yeah, I’m being fr rn.

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Anonymous #14 4h

“My experience is the only experience ”

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Anonymous #14 4h

You just stereotyped by saying “Thats not what my family does or says” and used your poor urban experience as a full on confirmation that he is not black which sounds dumb. The arrogance that a black person wouldn’t speak the same as you is utterly dumb. Everybody speaks different based on what kind of culture they grew up in. But getting weird on the internet over “You don’t sound black is dumb”. And i only hear black women say this so idk whats up w yall.

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Anonymous #44 4h

Thats literally what she just said then say’s thats not what she’s saying 🤣. Ignorance is truth in the eyes of the blind.

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Anonymous #52 3h

My experience was confirmation that his speech is a reflection of how he grew up. Go ahead and reread what I said. I said “young black/hispanic man ORR middle age racist white man.” Reading is a fundamental skill that not everyone has I guess.

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Anonymous #44 3h

Never said that, try again.

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Anonymous #14 3h

You must be white, only a white girl would say this

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Anonymous #52 3h

Lol okay bruh. I don’t fall for rage bait. I’m not white. I’m educated, come correct. Now, go ahead and reread what I said AND what I was responding to. THEN you can try to debate w/ me.

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Anonymous #14 3h

You can’t generalize an entire gender of blacks simply because that’s how your family acts. How do you know your family is normal? Your logic is the same logic racist use to justify their racism.

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Anonymous #31 2h

Another reason that reading is fundamental! I also spoke about the males in my school and relationships I’ve been in. That adds us to three sources. Not including what I’ve seen others experience. I’d advise you to also reread what I’ve said. THEN you can return to debate!

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Anonymous #14 2h

Yeah somebody come get this white girl she think she slick. Educated yet still ignorant. Come on man.

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Anonymous #52 2h

On god if I said half the shit she said about a gender or race I’d be the loneliest nigga around.

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Anonymous #52 2h

Lolll, whatever helps you sleep at night. I’m young, gifted, EDUCATED, and BLACK. Stay mad.

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Anonymous #14 2h

okay white girl

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Anonymous #31 2h

for real, these yt girls know no bounds dude

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Anonymous #52 2h

Hey I’m white but I’m not stupid lol

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Anonymous #44 2h

U aight.

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Anonymous #31 2h

Much appreciated

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Anonymous #44 2h

Indeed

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Anonymous #31 2h

Must be a you problem, I’m in a happy healthy relationship. With a man that doesn’t raise his voice and would never lay a finger on me. I feel bad for any woman that encounters you. I pray you change your mindset

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Anonymous #14 2h

What are you talking about? And what mindset?

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Anonymous #14 2h

Yt girls love bragging dont they

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Anonymous #44 2h

There will always be a white girl that tries to insert herself into a black people conversation in order to gain validation. Move around fr.

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Anonymous #14 2h

Um that would be me and I’m not the one stereotyping entire groups of people based on my experience alone, cause that’s a little weird so. Hope you change your mindset💖

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Anonymous #44 2h

Yuh tell her👍🏾

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Anonymous #31 2h

The person I originally responded to said that the commenter wasn’t black because he used “nigga” to describe himself. I said that what made it odd wasn’t that he used it, it was how he used it. I basically said that he acts that way because of his environment not his race. By choosing to “debate” with me, you agree that what he said wasn’t a reflection of his poor environment but a reflection of all black men. Which is what I oppose.

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Anonymous #44 2h

So, obviously you’re ignorant as well. Go reread hun, then come back. Or stop talking about what you don’t know about.

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Anonymous #14 2h

Jesus christ somebody hasn’t had their starbucks today huh. Getting a lil cranky out here yt girl

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Anonymous #52 2h

Mmmm I get it now. You realize that I knew what I was talking about. So, instead of withdrawing your argument, you choose to try this sorry ass attempt to rage bait me. Goodnight.

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Anonymous #14 2h

I thought it was pretty good attempt…

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Anonymous #31 2h

Bro gtfo

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Anonymous #14 2h

Okay

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