Anonymous #1 17h

this✨

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 17h

As a man I partake on occasion 💀

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Anonymous #3 16h

Quite true idiot

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Anonymous #4 16h

its like saying why you hate the oppressors

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Anonymous #1 16h

“Pick me dudes dont exist, they cant hurt you” Pick me dudes:

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 16h

Do 2 wrongs make a right?

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Anonymous #4 16h

I said its bad, but one exists as a aftermath

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Anonymous #5 16h

pick me or not, men are also scared of other men and that proves my point

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Anonymous #7 15h

Me when I lie

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Anonymous justinian 15h

Hearing I was born a horrible person and deserve hate really makes me wanna keep living 🙃

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Anonymous #5 15h

Incorrect use of the meme format, docking 20 points

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Anonymous #2 15h

Women don’t care about you, this person doesn’t. Stop letting them downplay the crisis by trying to ignore it. Keep looking forward king

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Anonymous #2 15h

im sorry if you feel that way.

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 15h

No you’re not when you’re causing the problem!!!

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Anonymous #3 15h

I am causing the problem dwag? go cry about it

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 15h

So called feminists when it comes to taking accountability for participating in ruining men’s mental health

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 15h

No it’s fine, I struggle with stuff like this but I get what you have been saying, it isn’t really wrong even if it is hurtful. I just hate how people make hate normalized. So many people say I hate men and usually it’s playful and not really the fully story, but it really hurts, and adds to self-hate, when I try so hard to be a good person and to never make anyone uncomfortable only to hear it’s impossible to be trustworthy and good because of my gender.

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Anonymous #2 15h

She doesn’t care about you or your answer. She’s ignorant and apart of the problem. I’m sorry you’ve gone through this man. It’ll get better

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Anonymous #1 15h

Stfu lmao 😭😂🥀

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Anonymous #2 15h

when women say they hate men, they dont mean all men, you can still pull girls who are man hater in general but will love you.

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 15h

Yes they do, unless they state otherwise. Be a grown up and word things how you truly mean

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Anonymous #6 15h

Made up BS

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 15h

“I’m sorry if you feel that way” the literal words you chose for that apology means you don’t care.

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Anonymous #3 15h

oh little boy, feminists are ruining your mental health? when your so called bros wouldnt acknowledge your mental health and laugh about it?

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Anonymous #11 15h

She’s literally a horrible person

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 15h

Yeah it’s gotten better since i better understood their pov’s, I hate to say it but I think it might be a me issue. I rarely see gendered hate either way in my real life but the online stuff does drag me down at times. Pulling women isn’t the point, it’s more about being a trustworthy and good person in general, someone who doesn’t make people uncomfortable or overstep on their boundaries. I appreciate your care alot though, I don’t mean to bash you if it sounds like i was

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Anonymous #6 15h

Think misogyny on the opposite foot.

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Anonymous #11 15h

That’s what I said

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Anonymous #5 15h

Hoes mad

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Anonymous #11 15h

I actually feel sorry for the person who can actually empathize unlike you

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Anonymous #12 15h

She doesn’t care dude, it wouldn’t surprise me if this is a sick fetish for her

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Anonymous #3 15h

oh yea I hate nice men, I hate my bf who makes me feel safe and cared for, i hate my dad who would give me the entire world, I hate the guy who slapped a man bc he was making comments about me lmao grow up

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Anonymous #3 15h

It probably is, it’s insane. As a woman, acting like your problems compared to the same problem for men is 100 times worse just because you were a woman is so fucked up.

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Anonymous #12 15h

The oppressor can’t be oppressed, women aren’t to plan for your bad mental health. The only person responsible for your mental health is YOU, extremely entitled that you want to push the blame for all your problems on to women. Cope.

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Anonymous #10 15h

Good thing men aren’t oppressing in today’s world! Stop trying to create lies to feel better about your short comings

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Anonymous #3 15h

Wah wah wah, women aren’t to blame for all my problems and I can’t take responsibility for my life at all!!! Wah!!!

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Anonymous #10 15h

I said the leading cause, not all. And I didn’t say misandary was worse, I said that misogyny is NOT worse. Don’t twist my words sounding like I’m going the extreme opposite way just to have an argument, that’s so fucked up.

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Anonymous #10 15h

Read my reply to the other girl. Same shit applies to you.

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Anonymous #3 15h

I’m a man baby, try again with that pathetic projection bullshit! Women aren’t to blame for your shitty life, get over it 💋

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Anonymous #10 15h

You guys are so fucked up, I did not say women are to blame from my shitty life, I said misogyny is not worse than misandry. Don’t twist my words just to have a stupid fucked up argument.

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My point still stands. I never said misandary was worse, I said misogyny is NOT worse. Read the words before you open your stupid fucking mouth.

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Anonymous #10 15h

So called feminist women when they’re held accountable for spreading hate and encouraging men to feel horrible for existing

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You’re the perfect example of a misandarist, thanks for putting yourself out there for the world to see.

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Anonymous #3 15h

As I said I’m a man dumbass, so take your projection and shove it up your ass. Keep crying about your pathetic life and how it isn’t your fault.

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crazy to compare misogyny with misandary lol

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Anonymous #10 15h

I never said I had a pathetic life, I’m talking statistics, not personal. Again, read the actual fucking words before you open your thoughtless mouth.

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 15h

No it doesn’t you just sound dumb

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Anonymous #12 15h

I’m a man and misandary doesn’t exist, keep crying about it.

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Anonymous #10 15h

Then you’re clearly a man who hasn’t experienced it. Lucky you, that or you’re just lying, all men and women experience misandry and misogyny in their life, you’re not exempt. If you don’t realize that’s what you’re experiencing, then that’s on you, I can’t help you.

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 15h

I never compared them lmao???? I said one exists and one doesn’t, don’t get it twisted hun.

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Anonymous #3 15h

men aren’t? where do you live you fucking stupid

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Anonymous #14 15h

See, as much as I agree with the first word, they have jobs we don’t. You also don’t have to get pregnant and take care of a baby almost exclusively by yourself for like 10 months. Don’t be a misogynist either.

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Anonymous #12 15h

Ignore him, he’s a pick me hoping to score browny points to sext with these girls

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Anonymous #12 15h

I mean I can tell just based on the fact that you want to blame an entire gender for your problems. Nobody with a good and happy life does that, hence your life is pathetic. Thank you for coming t my ted talk👋

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Anonymous #3 15h

Nope I’m gay bb, again keep projecting dumbass lmao.

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Anonymous #10 15h

Again, never talked personal, I talked to statistics. And I didn’t say all, I said, leading cause. Read the words I said, and do your fucking research before you open your arrogant mouth.

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Anonymous #12 15h

Wah wah keep getting triggered because you can’t take accountability for your own problems.

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Anonymous #12 15h

I haven’t experienced it because it isn’t a real thing, you haven’t either. Sorry to break it to you.

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Anonymous #10 15h

It’s a literal word with a literal definition with true experiences to back it up, how the fuck does it not exist?

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Anonymous #10 15h

How many times do I have to say I wasn’t talking personal, I was talking statistics? You’re actually helpless.

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Anonymous #12 15h

Cope harder, women aren’t to blame for your problems 👏👏👏

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Anonymous #15 15h

when?

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Anonymous #10 15h

Men aren’t to blame for theirs either sport :)

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Anonymous #10 15h

You act like repeating the same thing that clearly doesn’t apply to what I’m saying is gonna make what you’re saying more powerful

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 15h

What you said was never even that bad compared to other people elsewhere

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Anonymous #12 15h

You’re getting pretty angry for someone not talking about personal experience. Cope and keep reporting my comments, I’m right 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous #3 15h

Yea except for the hundreds of years of systemic oppression of women in particular women of color. Keep lying buddy 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous #12 15h

You can tell 10 is losing the argument by claiming “you’re mad” when they’re the one wetting their diaper over this whole thing 😭 I think 10 needs a nap

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Anonymous #12 15h

do you actually look into studies on mens mental health or are you just sayin shit? the leading causes of men’s mental health issues according to research are work related pressures/ economic stress, social isolation, substance abuse and physical health

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Anonymous #10 15h

You can have a discussion without being a jerk. But I guess that’s hard to do when the point you’re trying to make is an absolute misandaristic point

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Anonymous #3 15h

I don’t even know, he knows he’s wrong, he’s just rage baiting at this point

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Do you have an actual quote of us cussing you out? As in multiple swear words and derogatory words about you? Or are you just getting emotional little guy?

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Anonymous #12 15h

Yall have been jerks all over these comments, and I’m supposed to show you a courtesy you can’t show others? Please fuck off 😂😂

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Anonymous #7 15h

misogyny isn’t just men physically harming women. misogyny is systemic in ways that misandry never will be. misogyny permeates more aspects of society than you even realize. it has shaped culture and religion and relationships for centuries

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Anonymous #12 15h

I’m not wrong, yall are just sad little babies.

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Anonymous #10 15h

Poor guy, maybe some juice and a blanket while you lay down? Can’t handle being held accountable for your behavior? You sound like a republican crying when proven wrong

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Anonymous #16 15h

And where do you think that social isolation comes from? Misandary, dude, that’s the entire point. They are socially isolated because in a way that much of the world doesn’t actually see, they are oppressed just as much as women,

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Anonymous #3 15h

Yall got so triggered in these comments please don’t think your pathetic attempt at bait is gonna work. My job here is down, more sad little men upset that someone didn’t feed into their delusional facade so you don’t have to own up to the fact that you did nothing with your lives and it’s YOUR fault. Nobody else’s. Have the day you deserve 🙂‍↕️💀👋👋👋

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Anonymous #3 15h

Oh, I said the word fuck to him quite a few times, but not in a derogatory way towards him.

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Anonymous #10 15h

I’m sorry, your very first reply to my comment started with “wah wah wah.” how was that not you being a jerk?

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Anonymous #16 15h

Misogyny by definition does not mean anything physical, it’s social oppression. And even if it was physical, you’re completely wrong. There is a current viewpoint that women can hit men, but men can’t hit women. Neither should happen, but the viewpoint that if a woman hits a man, the man can’t hit the woman back to defend himself is also Misandary, not because of the physical violence, but the double standard that we’ve set for women

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Anonymous #12 15h

that’s just not supported by research at all. men report feelings of loneliness and isolation due to not having strong bonds with male friends and not feeling comfortable sharing emotions/ asking for help. a large part of why so many men struggle with mental health is because of the patriarchy and the standards it holds men to. society tells men they need to be manly and strong all the time and shames them for being emotional.

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Anonymous #12 15h

women have a part in enforcing this, as well but i really don’t see how women being misandrist is causing men not to reach out to each other. as for your other claim, in what other ways do you feel like men are oppressed by women?

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Anonymous #3 15h

Don’t make a political. He’s being a jerk, but don’t be political about it, you’re just gonna start more arguments

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Anonymous #10 14h

Maybe some apple slices with your juice box 🥺🥺🥺

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Anonymous #16 14h

You do realize you just gave the meaning of Misandary, right? The standard that men need to be manly and not share emotions? Much like the vice versa, women being told they should be seen and not heard? Is that not misogyny? Because if that’s misogyny, then what you just told me right now is Misandary.

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Anonymous #16 14h

All the double standards. I’ve had conversations multiple time where people say men can’t hit women, but if a woman hits a man, it’s probably because he deserved it. What would you call that?

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Anonymous #17 14h

I’m not complaining about women, I’m pointing out that saying oppression against women is worse than oppression against men is absurdly ludicrous. Men face oppression every day just like women do. Neither is worse, both are bad.

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Anonymous #12 14h

literally textbook misogyny bc women aren’t seen as equal to men. also men very frequently do still hit women lol

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Anonymous #12 14h

men aren’t oppressed on the basis of sex but if it makes you feel better to make things up go ahead

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Anonymous #17 14h

I didn’t say men don’t hit women, don’t twist my words. I said that the difference between men hitting women and women hitting men is vast. If a man hits a woman, it’s a crime, but if a woman hits a man, it’s probably because he deserved it. That’s the standard set, and that’s misandry.

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Anonymous #10 14h

Notice how all your comments are downvoted to the negative? That should tell you something.

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Anonymous #12 14h

i would definetly call that an unfair gender based double standard. (not really much evidence to the claim that men are as oppressed as women) i have conducted research on intimate partner violence, its a topic i take very seriously. male victims of IPV are not taken as seriously and it is a huge issue. one that stems from patriarchal norms is argue, not oppression.

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Anonymous #12 14h

in social science, oppression usually refers to systematic and institutional patterns that consistently disadvantage a group across many areas of life. men are not systemically oppressed by women in the ways that women are in society. that is not a matter of opinion, it has been researched extensively

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Anonymous #16 14h

The double standard is oppression, they’re the same thing. Saying that a man can’t do this simply because he’s a man is an “ingrained bias” per the definition of “misandry”

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Anonymous #16 14h

Not in the same ways, but that’s why it’s not seen as much as the oppression of women.

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Anonymous #12 14h

i’m not going to argue something that is consistently proven by research. it’s not equal.

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Anonymous #16 14h

Partner violence itself is not misogyny or misandry. It’s not the physical violence itself, it’s the idea that it’s not OK in one way, but it’s acceptable vice versa. It’s the idea that makes it misandry, not the actual violence itself.

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Anonymous #16 14h

It’s not equal in specific aspects, men are oppressed in a different way than women, not in the same way. That is 100% proven by research.

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Anonymous #12 14h

your original argument was that men and women are equally oppressed just in different ways. that is not supported

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Anonymous #12 14h

women, on average, experience more widespread structural disadvantages across more domains.

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Anonymous #16 14h

Yes it absolutely is supported, I have done extensive research on men’s mental health when it comes to oppression

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Anonymous #16 14h

So are men, what’s your point?

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Anonymous #12 14h

i said women are more disadvantaged. can you cite the research you’ve published

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Anonymous #16 14h

You’re saying women are disadvantage in specific areas, I’m saying men are more disadvantaged in other areas, neither are more widespread, they’re both different

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Anonymous #16 14h

unless by “researched extensively” you mean googled stuff

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Anonymous #16 14h

Googling stuff is not extensive research, don’t even try that shi on me

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Anonymous #12 14h

bc men aren’t oppressed for being men holy fuck 😭 men obviously are oppressed for their race/sexuality/etc but it’s not bc they’re MEN. literally every issues you’re listing that’s ‘misandry’ is either a side effect of misogyny or the result of another system of oppression. men are not oppressed bc they’re men

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Anonymous #12 14h

i’m aware. i’ve conducted research. i’m asking you how you have researched/ to cite your publications

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Anonymous #17 14h

Yes tf they are, they are standard set for men that a lot of the times are super unfair and horrible for their mental health which leads to many other issues.

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Anonymous #12 14h

yeah and that’s bc of misogyny. bc men are viewed as more capable than women, so they have a different set of expectations. ‘misandry’ won’t end until misogyny does

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Anonymous #16 14h

I’m not digging through to show all my research just to try to prove a point to some arrogant child on YikYak. Do some proper research yourself if you wanna find it, you’re funny

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Anonymous #17 14h

That’s not because of misogyny, that’s misandry, do you hear yourself right now?

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Anonymous #12 14h

researching, means you CONDUCT scientific research

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Anonymous #16 14h

Yep, thanks for telling me the definition of research, very helpful

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Anonymous #12 14h

you don’t know that that is because of patriarchal norms? surely you’ve come across these topics in your “research”

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Anonymous #12 14h

it’s not though bc there’s no system of oppression on the basis of sex for men 😭

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Anonymous #16 14h

right bc it’s a very well known thing that misogyny ALSO hurts men

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Anonymous #17 14h

definitely. so many norms are so ingrained in society that people don’t even realize it

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Anonymous #16 14h

Patriarchal norms and double standards meant to give women an excuse to treat men a certain way are two different things, don’t confuse the two

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Anonymous #16 14h

Can yall shut tf up these motivations are driving me crazy over a dumbass argument

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Anonymous #16 14h

and ik no man here is actually seriously concerned about misandry bc if they were, they’d know the only way to end it would be to end misogyny. but that would mean they can’t complain on yikyak anymore :(

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Anonymous #17 14h

See, now you’re just making it sound like I’m saying misandry is worse than misogyny, which is absolutely not true. My original claim was that neither are worse, they’re just presented in different ways.

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Anonymous #12 14h

the double standards are the result of the patriarchal norms 😭😭 but believe that if it makes you feel better. ik nothing i say will change your mind and nothing you say will change mine so 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #17 14h

Shut tf up no one cares

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Anonymous #1 14h

Honestly it’s not😭

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Anonymous #17 14h

I agree, and I think that’s an OK way to end a conversation like this. There’s an infinite number of viewpoints on matters like this, I’m not necessarily saying yours are completely wrong or untrue, I’m just saying for the most part I don’t personally see it the same way.

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 14h

Learned this the hard way

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Anonymous #6 14h

okay well now i HAVE to keep commenting. if you wanted me to shut up you shouldn’t have commented mama

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Anonymous #6 13h

Yep, we were having a relatively chill conversation until you jumped in

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Anonymous #13 12h

It kind of is, misandry is a response to women dealing with a lot of violence and hatred imposed on them by men (as a class) through the patriarchy, misogyny was the perpetuation of that violence initially It’s the same way a queer person might be distrustful of someone who isn’t queer or how any person of color in America might be distrustful of white people It’s not about being a man, it’s about having been part of the oppressive class

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Anonymous #21 12h

That’s not to say men’s mental health doesn’t matter or they deserve to be hated constantly, but doing away with misandry is going to be a product of dismantling the patriarchal social standards on men and doing away with misogyny first

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Anonymous #12 12h

I disagree, if you’re referring to the male loneliness epidemic that’s not an issue caused by women hating men, from personal experience it comes from lacking a community, as soon as you find a community (and especially mixed gender communities) it does genuinely get a lot better If you’re suffering bc you feel like all women hate you I’m sorry and I hope it gets better

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Anonymous #12 12h

You’re right. Women should know their place. With taking care of babies first and easy jobs second if needed. I completely agree with you.

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Anonymous #22 12h

misogyny pushes women to misandry. guess which one existed first for centuries and is heavily engrained in culture

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Anonymous #16 12h

Absolute horrid take. You can literally look at how feminist/equality movements arose due to misogyny, and if that doesn’t prove how combating hate with love can cause change, idk what to tell you.

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Anonymous #24 9h

domestic violence, sexual assault, honor killings, femicide, and inadequate access to protection or healthcare

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 9h

That’s just people killing people. Thats not someone being misogynistic, it’s murder. How many men die from war? Suicide? Failing bodies from working so hard? All part of the same sexist (and you could therefore say misandrist) system

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Anonymous #24 9h

its a result of misogyny though, look at Iran, Afganistan, many other countries…and how many women died from domestic abuse. A lot of men dont consider women anything other than sex objects. What you said does happen but not just because of misandary.

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 9h

And what you said happens but not just bc of misogyny. More men are killed overall than women. The system is therefore rigged to allow more male death than female

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Anonymous #24 9h

is it not because men are more likely to do dumb shit that puts their life at risk? its not because of misandary, yes its the same society that oppresses women tells men to toughen up, im not denying that. But men has way more advantages than women.

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Anonymous #3 9h

Why is it a woman’s responsibility to handle MENS mental health? Take some accountability and grow up. You’re embarrassing

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Anonymous pink_baddie8 6h

This condescending bullshit is exactly what people mean when they bring up that men’s mental health isn’t taken seriously

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Anonymous #12 6h

Men’s mental health has been an issue far longer than misandry has been popping up on our screens. And the original post makes perfect sense, it might just seem hard to hear. Misandry is horrible no doubt, but misogyny has been KILLING women. Deadass look at afganistan, women aren’t allowed to even show their faces or go to college? The Salem witch trials? Men don’t face that same discrimination? Who gets killed more in relationships? Who gets raped more?

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Anonymous #29 6h

Like bro I’m a guy and does it suck hearing women say they hate men? Sure. But comparing that to what women go through is the most out of touch shit I’ve ever heard. Even men that get raped or boys that get trafficked are for *majority* other men. And lets not try and pretend it isn’t true because how many of you would hire a 21yr old guy to babysit your 6-16yr daughter?

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Anonymous #18 18m

Source? I bring up misandry more than when just misogyny is brought up. Nice strawman. Systematic oppression is when boys clubs (boy scouts of america) allow girls but girls do not have reciprocation. Or when girls get their student athletics paid for by the boys programs. Or when girls don’t have to sign up for the draft to recieve fasfa

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