Confessions on Sidechat | friendly reminder that having a high body count as a man is just as bad as having a high body count as a woman. don’t let these men try to slut shame u while they’re over here cracking anything with legs. fucking double standards

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friendly reminder that having a high body count as a man is just as bad as having a high body count as a woman. don’t let these men try to slut shame u while they’re over here cracking anything with legs. fucking double standards

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Anonymous 2d

i don’t think any of it is bad let the people bang ‼️

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Anonymous 2d

I’ve seen some men try to say it’s different because it’s harder for them to get sex so only women should be judged for it. But we all know if they could fuck whoever they wanted to, they’d be with way more people than women would…

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Anonymous 2d

At a certain age we should stop caring about each others “bodies count” people can feel pressured onto saying yes men and women some people can go through bad times in their life but it shouldn’t define the person they are

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Anonymous 2d

It’s interesting how you’re agreeing with #1 who is saying it’s crazy letting someone with a high body count hit , but then also shaming men who shame women for a having a high body count. Which one is it? Is it wrong or is it right?

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Anonymous 2d

exactly. one, why would i let u hit, and two why would i let a man with a high body count hit and yk i dont play like that

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Anonymous 2d

I hate men

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Anonymous 2d

remember ladies, a woman can only get pregnant once a year, a man can go and spread his gross seed and gets hundreds of women pregnant in a few months, yet we are the ones who are forced birth control and told to just "close our legs" like sex isnt a natural part of life. we as a society need male birth control, i feel like that would fix a lot of issues ngl.

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Anonymous 2d

Or hear me out. None of it actually matters

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Anonymous 2d

Nah it’s not. One of the biggest double standards in society. Calling a man a hoe is not an insult

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Anonymous 2d

those dudes are lying because no way they have such a high body count and are that disappointing

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Anonymous 2d

I don’t think I’ve ever met a man ashamed of a high body count

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Anonymous 2d

No judgement for either. However, it is much much more difficult to be a man and legitimately have a higher body count. Let’s get real, far less women are willing to fuck men than men are willing to fuck women.

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Anonymous

#1 2d

literally. omfg.

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Anonymous

#2 2d

that’s the most idiotic logic i’ve ever heard. lol. it’s not different at all. when u have multiple sexual partners, you’re teaching yourself to immediately detach and be emotionally numb. that’s not gender specific. i think it’s immoral regardless but to say it’s only an issue when a woman has a high body count and believe it, genuinely enrages me

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Anonymous

OP 2d

I mean I don’t think it’s a bad thing to have sex with a lot of people as long as you’re safe and everything’s consensual. But to be misogynistic about it is different

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Anonymous

#3 2d

as long as they are no double standards who am i to judge atp

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Anonymous

OP 2d

lol am i getting downvoted for not judging and just asking for their not to be double standards? this app is so backwards

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Anonymous

OP 2d

Horndogs will do anything for puh

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Anonymous

OP 2d

I think the reason society likes to view it that way is partly just due to biology. Women take much more risk fucking then men do. In today’s society, that risk is much more evenly spread though, however, with things like child support and the law. Not saying it’s perfect, but just theorizing why it’s viewed like that.

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Anonymous

#8 2d

nah it’s purely weirdo purity culture and misogyny

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Anonymous

#9 2d

but as a woman you gotta filter out which ones are safe so they’re not all actual options

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Anonymous

#9 2d

I would disagree unless you are trying out of your league tbh if you try for someone in your league or below it can be relatively easy. Also, college canvases are where people tend to get the most bodies because they go to college to have fun and don’t think about consequences.

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Anonymous

#11 2d

Real

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Anonymous

OP 2d

I think people are downvoting bc you said it’s bad to have a high body count, which directly contradicts your claim of not judging. Hopefully just poor wording and your point about double standards is very valid

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OP 2d

Ooop, not just poor wording after all. Again, you’re right that gendered double standards are bullshit and do real harm, but doubling down on shaming people for having multiple sexual partners is not the way out. The patriarchy wants us all trapped in a web of shame. Everyone of all genders should be free to enjoy as many or few sexual relationships as they desire!

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Anonymous

#14 2d

i mean yeah that’s fair. i just meant it’s not something worthy of bragging about or something you should strive for in life but at the same time, ppl r gonna do what they want and i can’t spend my life judging every single action

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Anonymous

beestboy 2d

i don’t agree with it but u do u

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Anonymous

#13 2d

even men hate men unfortunately

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Anonymous

OP 2d

I feel u homie

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Anonymous

#14 2d

i think a lot of ppl r taking what i said as shaming. that’s not rlly what im trying to do and it kinda takes away from my original point. and thats why ppl think im contradicting myself. i can not agree with an action and still not judge anyone for it. but i will judge u if u say its ok for a man to have multiple sexual partners but disgusting if a woman does it

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