Confessions on Sidechat | I was groped by a woman once. As much as it should have been awesome and wanted in theory. In actuality, it’s kinda messed my head up, even now. I remember freezing up and not saying a word cause I knew I’d be made fun of by the other guys and others.

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I was groped by a woman once. As much as it should have been awesome and wanted in theory. In actuality, it’s kinda messed my head up, even now. I remember freezing up and not saying a word cause I knew I’d be made fun of by the other guys and others.

Anonymous 5w

In theory it’s assault, I’m sorry that happened to you and I’m sorry other people are judgmental of your victimhood

Anonymous 5w

hey! i’m so sorry this happened to you but it’s huge that you’re sharing it. people don’t realize how serious stuff like this is and how it happens to everyone, it is something men so easily brush off. i’m not a man but stuff like this has happened to me and that feeling of embarrassment or shame is absolutely universal, youre not alone in that! but someone told me once that that shame is not yours to hold, it is theirs for ever thinking that action was okay! i am sorry this happened to you!

Anonymous 5w

The one thing I want to share about this story and why I am putting it out here, is to understand that when ppl don’t speak for years about their own until later. It’s so true you do suppress the memory. Reading another’s story made me remember my own experience. There’s other traits too. So in all I get it and it makes sense.

Anonymous 5w

I’ve been in a similar scenario as a man. I feel u bro

Anonymous 5w

Was she drunk?

-1

Anonymous 5w

If any women want to grope me, I’m down!

-3

Anonymous 5w

Is this a joke?

-9

Anonymous

#3 5w

not just in theory in practice :(

Anonymous

#6 5w

Not a joke.

Anonymous

#7 5w

remember it is not something you deserved or asked for nor think that it’s something you could’ve stopped. i’m sorry you felt the need to suppress this memory for so long, sending love!

Anonymous

#7 5w

Thank you for the kind and helpful post. You hit it on the dot actually with the feeling of shame and embarrassment. I’ll also add in confused. cause why was it me? I was with 3 other guys. I’m not all that at all. So it baffles me to this day.

Anonymous

#8 5w

Not that I know of. Or remember

Anonymous

OP 5w

i think that’s another thing ab stuff like this it can ruin self confidence, not only w how you describe what ur feeling but also w the fact that it feels like a humiliation thing. but i cannot emphasize enough there is genuinely nothing you did that caused this. with people that do stuff like that, they are going to do bad things regardless of the circumstances. people like that have their actions and their habits set, it was just unfortunate that it had to be acted out on you.

Anonymous

#7 5w

genuinely nothing on you. which again is confusing, but for whatever reason this person had specific circumstances line up to do a bad thing that they were honestly going to do regardless. idk if that makes sense but dont let it become a question in your head, especially not one that revolves around your own confidence. whether you are “all that” or not (which im sure you are great) someone did something horrible! it is NOT a reflection on anything about you

Anonymous

#7 5w

Ty Ty. This has been more helpful and soothing. (Not sure how else to describe it!) I’m going to screen shot your posts to go back on in the future if that’s ok.

Anonymous

OP 5w

100000%, if you ever need to talk in the future i am here! pls don’t hesitate to reach out. i’m glad i could be of any kind of comfort!