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is it a red flag that my bf doesn’t want to see me bc i’m sick? i feel like he should want to take care of me instead of being scared to get sick.. idk maybe that’s selfish of me
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Anonymous 4w

Tbh I think so. My ex was like that, refusing to be around me. But my current boyfriend goes out of his way to take care of me when I’m sick. He says he loves me too much to see me go through it alone and that taking care of me makes him happy. I do the same for him, it just feels right

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Anonymous 4w

When I was with my ex I would still take care of her when she was sick even if I was the one to get sick after, it was still worth it to make sure she was okay so no your not selfish.

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Anonymous 4w

If yall been together long enough he should be taking care of you, especially if it’s second mixture for you to take care of him when he’s sick 🤏🏾

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Anonymous 4w

You can still care for someone sick without getting their germs all up on you. I’ve cared for my bf before without getting sick myself, it’s possible if you wash your hands frequently and don’t get too close

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Anonymous 4w

I stay away from my man when he’s sick. I don’t think is so much selfish but just trying not to get sick bc it sucks. I totally see your point but I’m the same way😭

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Anonymous 4w

He should just mask tf up

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