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As someone who has a HS diploma and almost finished college, I told this guy I cannot date him because he has no trade, no certificate, no goals. Working in a grocery store, staying with your mom, and playing the game isn’t it for me. He got mad idc
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Anonymous 4w

I mean yea they’re gonna get mad, you’re telling them they’re a loser 🤣 you don’t want a loser it’s that simple

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Anonymous 4w

Wanting a trade cert or college degree is fine but in this economy live with your parents as long as you can, the monetary savings is worth it (IF you save properly, which this guys sounds like he’d blow it on cigarettes and FanDuel)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

That’s the thing I don’t have an issue with him staying with his mom. I get it this economy is corrupting, but he has no goals to better himself. He doesn’t want to pick up something that can bring him more than what he has. He wants to stay where he is. It’s the lack of drive and wanting better for yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Wanting to be a grocery stocker the rest of your life can certainly raise some red flags

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I get that almost everyone is living roommate style, but leaching off your roommate that’s a whole other thing as an adult.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh god leaching off roommates is nowhere near the same thing as with your parents lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yeah, like if grocery is your thing, how about finding a trade that can help you own a store or something? I don’t know much about that field; I’m in the therapy area, lol.

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