
i never said they can’t be attractive but them pursuing me would make me lose a little bit of respect for them. the idea of my future man or future guy friend in 10 years saying their recent ex is 18 and born in 2018, that would gross me out real bad. also i’ve seen girls w 30 yr old bfs and they’re all either severely chopped, immature, or creepy. but that’s just my personal opinion!