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as a girl I started regularly flicking the bean from like age 9 ngl and idk if it’s normal or not because most of my friends act like they’ve never/rarely have done it before, makes me feel like a gooner pervert freak 💔
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Anonymous 2d

Started having fetishistic fantasies before I knew about sex (around 4). Began physical stimulation at age 7. I was never abused or anything. It’s totally normal

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Anonymous 2d

I did this at like 4 I think? Im not sure exactly what age. I just noticed touching myself down there felt good and then I got addicted to it. Never told anyone this.

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Anonymous 2d

I started jerkin it around 12. Seems like none of my friends really do it. Lone wolf over here

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Anonymous 2d

gooner pervert freaks unite ✊

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Anonymous 2d

I started when I was like 11?

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Anonymous 2d

I started at 6 but tbh I’m pretty sure it’s because I was being abused

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Anonymous 2d

For me I figured out how to stimulate that area prob around 4-5, I used to think it was weird to figure it out early 😭😭I’m glad I’m not the only one tho

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Anonymous 2d

They lying to you lol

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Anonymous 2d

y’all, please be careful of #1 if you’re a girl. he’s a high school teacher in his 30s and he’s desperate for sexual attention from young women

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Anonymous 2d

started at age 9, thought it was normal

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Anonymous 2d

I started at 7. Probably due to past trauma but regardless it’s a natural part of life and some start earlier than others

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Anonymous 2d

started when I was like 4 lowk,, I think it’s normal. funnily enough I almost never do it now

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Anonymous 2d

As far as the reactions to having fantasies young I feel like the shit that peaks your interest isn’t always sexual but you definitely like it in a sexual context like ok I dunno if some of the real reasons why I like certain things is related to control/loss of control, feeling wanted/loved despite X thing, or whatever so seeing Batman tied up on tv as a kid and being like hmmmmmm doesn’t neccasirly mean you liked it as a kid sexually but that it could be something you like to explore sexually

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Anonymous 1d

I didn’t do it until a year ago and then got bored and never did it again 👍I don’t think my experience is normal though

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Anonymous 2d

I’m a girl here I’ve been doing it since like 10 I think ngl

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Anonymous 2d

People are different no way?! Lol all jokes aside don't feel bad about being more sexual than peers

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Anonymous 2d

I got all yall beat I didn’t know what it was at nap time but knew it felt sick as hell

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Anonymous 2d

It’s normal to be curious about your body as a child :)

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Anonymous 2d

I did at like 12

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Anonymous 2d

I was jerking since I was 5 so lol

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Anonymous 2d

i started at like 11 so not far off😓

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Anonymous 2d

Normal

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Anonymous 2d

Started gooning around 8/9.

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Anonymous 2d

i feel like it depends on the earlier you start. I think most guys started around that time and most girls started later. The early you started, the more normalized it seems to you and the more you do from

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Anonymous 2d

9 years old is not normal

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Anonymous 2d

been through years and years of therapy, yeah. I feel kind of iffy about the psychiatric system though, partly because when I was forced into therapy at age 11, my therapist would report back to my parents—it was used like a form of surveillance

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Anonymous 2d

def more common than most people realize, like to some extent there’s laws in place that’re supposed to protect a child’s privacy in clinical settings but they aren’t always upheld and there’s a lot of “loopholes” that’s stressful, ugh. I mean I think sometimes kids just naturally explore sexuality on their own with same-age peers but obviously for safety reasons they shouldn’t be sending Anyone nude photos 😰

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Anonymous 2d

and thank you, but I don’t really wanna delve into my personal specifics rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

what?

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 2d

Wdym what?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

pretty much same as you but i always thought it was weird i had non-sex (but obviously sexually driven) fantasies before i knew what sex was

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Ew what a creep. Thx for the heads up

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 2d

I’m actually extremely horrified that he tried to ask me to DM him the details of my childhood sexual trauma earlier today. he definitely was not looking to offer moral support

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 2d

Bro same! The rope bunny in me awoke early with certain scenes in movies ppl get tied up a lot in movies

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 2d

Like what I mean is like for the Batman example maybe people liked the power dynamics or loss of control or something but we explore those interests sexually despite it stemming from a non sexual reason or like maybe need- like idk maybe you feel like you do a lot on the daily so being able to lose control and get wrecked in bondage is your outlet for that need.

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Anonymous 2d

weirdo alert.

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Anonymous 2d

The anonymity on this app has made you people too comfortable

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Anonymous 1d

Absolutely the FUCK not

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Yikes I’m so sorry <33

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I was forced into therapy at age 8 (also was being abused, but not sexually) and had a very similar experience. Therapist would meet with my parents first, then met with me and would just yell at me for the whole session based on whatever it was my parents told her I did. It made it hard for me to allow myself to get therapy when I needed it later on. They rlly need to fix the childhood therapy system bc if your parents aren’t on your side your therapist won’t be either.

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 1d

LITERALLY

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 1d

same, and I know someone else irl who had a similar experience in like first grade

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