Nobodyās mad that you want to feel loved or whatever itās all the responses saying that āyāall want equalityā and acting like men are the prize is straight up fucking weird. Using equality as an excuse to treat women horribly and neglecting them reflects on menās standards for relationships. You wonder why thereās a āsingle manā epidemic itās because of this mentality that makes women wanna be single.
So men acting like theyāre the prize is weird but women doing it is ok? And for the treating women like shit part, there are women out there who take advantage of and hate men to their core for absolutely no reason at all. Your reason is one of the many as to why the genuine guys say what they do. As one myself, it literally doesnāt matter what we think.
Yeah bc you are dude. This is so not an issue and also what frustrations are you talking about? Not being a āprizeā? Newsflash men arenāt. Women should be the prize bc her love and affection and care is something you need to earn. Men used to go to war and build houses, and youāre whining about not being special enough? Grow up.
Now Iām understanding this whole conversation. Youāve never been in a relationship to know how it works! Thatās totally okay I can explain it to you! When two people agree to be in a relationship they typically require/provide love and affection! Thatās the whole point of a relationship, so happy I could teach you something!š«¶š»
I actually have been in a relationship. 2 actually and guess what my ex hated it whenever Iād oppose what she wanted. Sheād do whatever she wanted. Example 1, spend $$$ on a stupid masters degree and not use it to get a better job. $20k+ that could have gone towards our first house but noooooooooo Iāll use it to get a master degree that I wonāt use to even improve my career
I was in full support of her getting a masters until she wasnāt even going to use it to improve her career. She basically just flushed $20k down the drain. My mindset was future family while hers was herself. She was mad at me for that. I moved 10+ hours to be closer to her. I made sacrifices to make things work but she never wanted to do it herself. Thatās an entitled view
Can you shut the fuck up? Like genuinely I donāt know what makes you think your opinion and feelings are more important then anyone elseās and (Iām gonna use your favorite word) I am not ENTITLED to care! So for the sake of everyone stop talking and go self reflect on why your ex took your money and left .
A relationship never lasts when one person thinks theyāre better or superior to the other. Nobody is the prize. Whatās the prize is finding someone who you want to live the rest of your life with and makes you happy day in and day out and will be there for you through the roughest of days And not say, āthis shit is stupid Iām outā. Thatās what an emotionally immature entitled asshole says because they canāt handle the tough talks
I want a women who I will want to be there for her every second of labor, hopefully not faint, for exampleš And sheād reciprocate that same effort and be there for me when I had a rough day at work or something like that Because weād equally care about each other and couldnāt stand to see the other going through it alone. Thatās loving someone