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if someone snores, moves too much in their sleep, takes up all the space in the bed, i will literally break up. no relationship or person is worth being deprived of sleep
It’s like, almost impossible to sleep next to my partner nowadays. All they do is kick me, yank the blanket, and somehow always manage to always rip whatever I have covering my eyes in the morning from my face. What do I even do?
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Anonymous 22h

Having two beds or even rooms is an option too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

yes but majority of people will get offended by asking for that 😭 not to mention the added expenses of the extra bedroom isnt feasible rn in this economy or at this point in my life as a humble college student 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

I would think a partner would be less offended by you needing a different bed to sleep in due to uncontrollable sleep conditions in order to maintain the relationship than getting dumped But also: couch. My mil sleeps in a recliner for this exact reason (and she’s whack and just prefers it over a bed)

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Anonymous 14h

if the snoring developed later on, that's a different story but i wouldnt knowingly get into a relationship with someone who does. i need my sleep lol

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Anonymous 14h

i wouldnt want to sacrifice my sleep every single night for another person if they were sick and dying or it was an emergency, sure. but consistently? every night? for the rest of my life? no.

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Anonymous 13h

oh yeah i'm open to separate rooms nor you said the couch bro

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Anonymous 13h

i meant that OTHER people dont like separate rooms- i personally NEED a separate room 😭😭. i suggested it once and got a very negative reaction from the person i was with 💀

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