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As an m. The fact that I did enjoy my sexual assault is such a controversial topic. Yeah I was young. Yeah I’m in therapy. But I wasn’t “abused”. But fuck all of you for giving me shit for sharing my experience even though it doesn’t fit yours.
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Anonymous 2w

You were abused whether you want to call it abuse or not. I’m sorry that happened, even if you enjoyed it. It’s not something we should normalize

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Anonymous 2w

i’m the same way. now that spefic kink has been one i’ve been wanting to do but everyone thinks im weird or crazy for it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Why is everyone saying that? I’m talking about it cause it happened to me. And people are afraid to talk about that. There’s a whole fucking kink basically developed on how people don’t talk about it. Normalize yourself not being judgemental.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I’m not judging you, I’m telling you that what you experienced is classified as abuse whether you enjoyed it or not. Just because you enjoyed it doesn’t mean it’s something our society should excuse and normalize

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Cool I wasn’t talking about classification. I talked about how I felt

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You claimed you weren’t abused, but you were, even though you liked it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I literally put it in quotations to add the obvious extra connotation.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’m not judging you for liking it, HOWEVER it’s not healthy to tell other people that sexual assault isn’t abuse, that harms other victims who probably didn’t enjoy what happened to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Dude why are you being generic with what I said? I didn’t use a royal we. I didn’t implicate anyone else. Just me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

The content of your posts implies that sexually assaulting someone could be considered something other than abuse if the person liked it, which is untrue and that logic is used to prevent other male victims from speaking up. Glad you liked it or whatever but it’s not something we should normalize

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’m sorry I’m talking about it as a victim? Why are you saying something worded as the voice of a perpetrator? I don’t know why you think a different point of view means that I thought what happened to me was okay? Cause I never said that. I said that I enjoyed it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah I don’t think you’ll ever understand the point I’m making, hopefully someday you will. Good luck to you

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