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Men: question for you. If my boyfriend says he’s naturally not an affectionate person be nature, and my love language if physical touch/ wants affection. Would that be a reason to leave her or if you loved her would you try to be more affectionate?
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Anonymous 20h

I tried in my last relationship that was just like this. But you gotta figure out if its how he was raised or if its something sensory. Ik I have some problems with being touched a lot and that causes some problems. Or if you are bigger&he feels smothered

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Anonymous 20h

I just think he doesn’t care about it. He’s just not genuinely a sexual person. But he won’t be try to even a little bit.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

If hes not willing to compromise on it then thats a reason for you to leave. If youre not willing to compromise on it then hes got a reason to leave. Yall can make this work but in the end, if one of yall is doing more compromising then its not right

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