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I just hugged another man as a joke and got actually turned on, in front of a group I don’t think anyone saw it but that was a shock to my system Fuck, I might be gay
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Anonymous 1d

So what it’s 2026

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Anonymous 1d

You’re not gay just bc of that. This mindvirus shi is ridiculous. I don’t think it’s healthy as a society that we’re trying to convince every young person that they might be gay. We’ve probably convinced a lot of people that aren’t that they actually are when they’d probably be much happier with their natural biological tendencies

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Anonymous 1d

Be free bro ain’t no one care

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I mean it doesn’t really matter, granted I live in a pretty conservative town so that might put me at odds with a few people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Honestly that’s their problem. Not yours.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Fair point

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I don’t think people realize how like not casual it is that we’ve been doing that as a society either. Like people seem to think that it’s just this harmless thing but it has some serious repercussions as a society when you take it too far and I think we’ve seen some of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I wouldn’t blame just this though it’s probably a bunch of related and tangential things. Like if you look at male testosterone levels over the past 70 years it’s crazy man

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Although, that’s also actually probably sort of a natural progression that I’m not entirely sure what to make of but it’s probably a real thing that happens to developed economies and societies over time. The sexual dimorphism gradually dissipates from the population and both genders slowly become more androgynous. The women get more masculine and the males get more feminine. If you look at the gray aliens you can hardly tell the males and females apart at all. There is no sexual dimorphism at a

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

all

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Yeah I should probably do some more looking into it before really making a judgement

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

^\_(••)_/^ I’m kind of just piggy backing off your post and the comments in here to do my lil d bag rant. You’ll figure it out, you don’t have to listen to my shiz or take it that seriously. What I’m talking about is more general anyway, you’re an individual. I don’t really have any advice for you or care tbh you’ll figure that out privately I’m sure, however you do

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23h

No one is trying to convince anyone of anything. OP is reflecting on the way THEY already feel about themselves. Any support that comes after is reactionary, not prescriptive. Imagine if they said instead “I really planning, design and blueprinting. I think i want to be an engineer” and then someone said “Shit man, give engineering a try, you never know” would you say that’s society trying to convince people to be engineers?!?!

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