i love my boyfriend but he says he’d feel unmasculine and insecure if i started working out my arms and back more & started weight lifting, he doesn’t want me to look buff ish i guess. kinda weird ngl.. i’m gonna end up doing it either way, sucks 4 him
He needs to get the fuck over himself. He can either start going too or cry about it
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Anonymous4d
he sounds a bit controlling
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Anonymous4d
Invite him to work out with you
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Anonymous4d
Sounds like he’s a little insecure
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Anonymous4d
he sounds like a pussy lol
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Anonymous#14d
that’s what i thought too, he isn’t really controlling with other parts of my life but that.. that raised a brow for me
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Anonymous#34d
i’ve tried to but he declines interest every time i ask him:( he does martial art classes at the gym every now and then but that’s it
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AnonymousOP4d
Then you’ve gotta lay down the law
Relationships require an amount of compromise, but you shouldn’t be forced to give up something you love
That’s just toxic