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I may get some hate for this one, but if you are in a situation where it is not safe or where you are having relationship issues with your partner, do not bring a child into this world. You need to worry about leaving that situation.
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Anonymous 5w

I work in domestic violence and the sad part is once you have a child, you are attached to that person for the rest of your life. I would never advocate for anyone to terminate a pregnancy for this reason, but I would say to be extremely careful WHO you choose to have children with before you do the deed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Exactly children don’t make relationships better. It makes it worse and creates more tension. That child will grow up feeling like they’re a burden. Not to mention most ppl don’t have kids because they want them. They have them because they think it’ll help. When it doesn’t no one wants custody of that child. That’s when abuse comes in. That child ends up sadly abused.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

If a husband is abusing his partner it’s very likely those kids will grow up to be abused by him as well

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