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How do I tell my bf I don’t wanna fuck twice a week every weekend cuz sometimes I’m just so damn tired or not in the mood w out it starting a fight… he always assumes I’m losing feelings/not attracted to him/cheating on him when I tell him I’m too tired..
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Anonymous 5d

Don’t sacrifice your own mental health for his pleasure. Everyone needs a break from time to time. If you force yourself, the relationship will begin failing regardless because you’ll build resentment. Speak to your bf calmly and sincerely about how you feel and why. If he doesn’t understand that, perhaps you should consider that he isn’t actually the one for you.

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Anonymous 5d

honey if he can’t understand that you’re not always in the mood for sex and he’s trying to like gaslight or bribe you into sex that’s clearly wrong and you need to break up with him

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Anonymous 5d

My boyfriend and I have sex only when we BOTH want it and our sex has never been better

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Anonymous 4d

Like I work 6 days a week I’m too tired to have it all the time

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Anonymous 5d

Suck his dick. He just needs to bust

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

hey so this is not helpful

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Oh I’ve BEEN resenting it. I don’t even enjoy sex anymore bc it feels more like a chore than anything else. I know he’s not the one but it’s just so complicated and I’m not ready to leave him

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

I know.. I’m just not ready to let go yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Ur so fucking weird bro..

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