LIKE WHY AM I BALD AND YOU HAVE A BUSH!?

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Anonymous #2 9w

but me as the lady got no vajungle

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Anonymous OP 9w

Least of anyone’s worries 🤣 half the women can’t even such right, but guys gotta lie

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LMDAOOO VALID AS FUCK. only guy who made me cum was using his fingers 🤣🤣

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Yes true …. But sometimes also wonder why they haven’t, it’s not as one sided as people think

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men dont have the balls to be upfront abt it. they just whine abt it in their head & ghost

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Effort in bed tracks with attraction and chemistry for everyone. Plenty of men will happily go all night for a partner they’re into… and plenty of women check out with a guy they’re not feeling. It’s not a men problem, it’s a ‘how into each other are you’ problem.

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Playing devils advocate- You told one guy what you wanted and he didn’t listen… that makes him bad that night, not men bad. And ‘he didn’t listen’ can just as easily mean he wasn’t into it as it means he’s selfish. You picked the version where it’s his fault. You don’t actually know which it was.

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Anonymous #3 9w

BALDDDD PLEAAAASE

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Anonymous #3 9w

Both

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Anonymous #3 9w

As long as it’s not a full on BUSH💀😭

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That’s literally my point. He’s there for his own release, same as you’re there for yours. You just described him doing to you exactly what you’d be doing to him…showing up for the finish and not fussed about the other person. That’s not ‘men,’ that’s two people who used each other. It only feels one-sided because you’re telling it

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We agree on the two-way street that’s the whole point. Only thing I’d push back on: you said it yourself, you’re the one communicating and wanting it mutual, so clearly it’s not ‘men’ who see sex as using someone it’s that one(s) who ignored you. 😊

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Anonymous #2 9w

If you’re lying about how well they perform blowjobs. You’re a piece of shit who shouldn’t be getting them. Be honest with them works wonders dipshit

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Anonymous #3 9w

Both are fine

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But that’s the symmetry I was pointing at … if you’re only there for the release, he’s an object to you that night too. ‘No wants or desires’ cuts both ways: you weren’t asking about his either. You’ve made yourself the one with feelings and him the object, but by your own account you both showed up for the same thing. Can’t claim the mutual bit and then keep the victim seat.

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This comes back to the pity point you were all saying about men same applies on women Its pity😊 just levelling the playing field

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As a bi guy. It’s very fun especially when the girls watch. I understand why you gals enjoy it now

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I’m not doubting you…. that sounds like a genuinely bad experience. But that’s actually my whole point. If it keeps happening, the real problem is the specific stuff: no foreplay, not paying attention, not caring if you’re into it. That’s a certain kind of guy(s)… not ‘men’ as a whole. Loads of men do foreplay and check in. So blame the trait, not the gender. That way you know exactly what to avoid next time. ‘Men’ is too broad… it lumps in the good ones with the selfish ones.

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Anonymous #2 9w

Why are you bothered if you’re one of the “good ones” this shouldn’t matter to you.

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Anonymous #5 9w

Not bothered… was intrigued by the generalisation 😊 You see it a lot: people list the favours they do for men, but never the reverse. It’s a one-way story, and I just pointed out it goes both ways.💐

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Gaslighting is telling you something didn’t happen. Disagreeing with you isn’t that… you had a point on the bad-partner stuff and I said so. We just landed on it being those guys , not men. All good 😊💐

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All good, take care 😊💐

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