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How would react if your best mate of 15 years ghosted you and never spoke to you again because he caught feelings for you while you had gf. (HONEST ANSWERS)
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Anonymous 1w

i mean maybe they didn’t wanna disrespect ur relationship or make you and your partner uncomfortable so they just stopped texting u? not excusing their behavior but that’s the only logical thing i can think of

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Anonymous 1w

at the very least you deserve honest communication. it sounds like they were either playing the long game hoping you’d one day be into them or they’re too afraid of being vulnerable to tell you what was happening

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Well I’m the best mate lol I do feel really guilty but it’s not please t seeing them with someone, not to mention that none of two are gay or willing to talk about that, doesn’t leave me with a lot of choice

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I’m the best mate and it’s the second option you said, I was only aware of my feelings for my same sex mate 2 years ago.

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