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I need to like have an intervention with one of my friends but zero idea how to do it and how to say it the right way. She keeps hooking up with a new guy the day she meets them and gets upset they don’t talk to her after I’m trying to tell her she can’t
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Anonymous 1d

- have high expectations for someone she doesn’t even know and sleeps with within the first five minutes of knowing her and since this happens pretty much evertime it’s best she stops because she wants a relationship

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Anonymous 1d

Any intervention has to start out with the fact that it comes outta concern; you have to say you do it because you love and care for her, you want the best life for her and the best man she can find but the way she’s doing it now is only hurting her and that hurts you. Offer a way you can find more suitable people and your support

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Okay! I’ll make sure i sound concerned and not judgmental because honestly I really am she is struggling so bad mentally cause of this and is starting to drink a shit ton more and is getting aggressive because the dudes won’t date her. Like it’s affecting the friend group at this point cause she’s getting physically aggressive with objects when she’s drunk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

That sounds awful but I’m glad you want to help your friend! Don’t endanger yourself though! These conversations are always very hard to have but it’s important to be persistent. She will probably not be understanding the first time so you want to say certain point over more and more days, never push to hard to put her away but never feel scared to make her feel shaken, change comes from uncomfortableness

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I think me and my friends are gonna do it in a group so she can have multiple perspectives and full support. As much as I don’t want her to feel cornered she’s really going into a bad hole so it’s like we need to say something now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I believe in you 🫡🫡

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