Anonymous #1 1w

I’d be homeless if I left him, I’d be in constant fear for my life if I left him, and he’d release awful videos of me if I left him. I’ve genuinely tried to leave before and he’s done stuff to physically stop me. Tbh in some ways I’m glad he stopped me because I don’t want to be homeless, dead, or have my life ruined with those videos.

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Anonymous OP 1w

I’m so sorry that is so horrible. Did he isolate you from your whole support system? can you call the police?

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Anonymous OP 1w

You can get restraining orders. I got one against my abusive ex

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Anonymous #1 1w

I never really had a support system to begin with tbh. I’ve already called the police twice, and both times it just ended badly for me. I was accused of false reporting, told I’d face charges for abusing police resources if I did it again, and then I was left alone with him and it was terrible.

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Anonymous #1 1w

If I managed to get a restraining order I’m still homeless, without any of my stuff, and he’ll release those videos

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Anonymous OP 1w

That is so horrible. Is he like influential in the community or something? Or did he just tell the police that you started it/you were abusing him/ur crazy type lies they always say

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Anonymous #2 1w

Tf is wrong with u. have some empathy jeez

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Anonymous #1 1w

Both of those. His family is insanely influential in the area and he told the police I was acting crazy.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Are there any shelters or stuff? Do you have any family at all you could stay with?

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Anonymous OP 1w

but try and get the restraining order. it’ll make him go to jail for 2 years if he ever contacts u, is in ur vicinity or does any sort of stuff like that. Plus, blackmailing someone is a crime. what he’s doing isn’t legal. Plus, with a restraining order at least u won’t have to be scared while u figure out next steps

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Anonymous OP 1w

Ugh i’m so sorry. No one cared about your side of the story at all? Do you live in a small town

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Anonymous #1 1w

I can’t get a restraining order, if I do I’d be homeless. Unfortunately I live in bum fuck nowhere so there’s no shelters nearby. Stuff with my family is complicated.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Fuck i’m so sorry. If you ever want someone to listen to you or just to rant to or anything you can dm me bc I get it i’ve been in a situation like this

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Anonymous #1 1w

Thank you

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