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Is it normal to think about the person who r*ped me and think about talking to them again?
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Anonymous 4w

It is 100% normal to think about. But probably isn’t a good idea to act on. Try speaking to a therapist or a provider about wha would be healthiest for you! There are resources if you want them!

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Anonymous 4w

Sometimes you want closer and you wnat to know why and Somethimes you want the admitting of doing you wrong. And sometimes. You belive if you can forgive them you acne move on if they are in your life

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Anonymous 4w

Actually no

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Anonymous 4w

But honey. Overall you’re decision just know letting someone like that into your life again means you open yourself back up to getting hurt again

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

That’s the thing. I just wanna know why bc I think that’s why I keep thinking about them. I feel like if I know the truth then it’ll allow myself to be more at peace

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I understand that and that’s why I’m kinda on the fence about reaching out. It’s been about three years since and we haven’t talked to each other since and I’m now in a different state so I’m far away from them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Thank you

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