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Okay maybe it is a bad thing that I feel safer with my boyfriends best friend than I do with my boyfriend.
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Anonymous 1d

If you’re that girl who was just posting bout her rapist bf then I’m happy you’re realizing that

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Anonymous 1d

please i am begging you, please understand that not having full consent is rape! i know how hard it is to realize that bad things have happened to you. i didn’t realize i was raped until years later because no one told me what was appropriate or not. it’s hard hun! but in order to heal, you have to face it. i wish you all the best <3

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Anonymous 1d

Stop defending rapists

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Anonymous 1d

the only consent is enthusiastic consent

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I still don’t think he’s a rapist. He just isn’t a total consent guy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Dawg, no means no

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

girl that's rape

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m really sorry he’s hurt you so badly that you think that isn’t rape. Maybe try talking to his friend? In the comments on your last post he seemed like a good guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I’m starting to realize that, it’s still a complicated situation for me though

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yeah he is a really good guy but I’d feel weird getting between their friendship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

how?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Where on this post am I defending a rapist?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

It’s just kinda complicated to come to terms with realizing someone who said they loved you was actually hurting you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

By brushing off rape and calling it not total consent

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

yeah i get that, it sucks. but you're better off without him.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Glad you seem to be waking up finally

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

That’s not defending anything. I’m just still learning to understand it

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