Anonymous #4 2d

Lmao you have it twisted. Men have been brainwashed to hold this belief/view of women. When in reality, we're just sick of being raped/assaulted/stalked/beaten/murdered (and also watching it happen to our female friends and family) and would really like y'all to stop and stand up to the bad guys who are doing these acts

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Anonymous #3 2d

Instead of the good guys cracking down on the bad guys though, y'all just seem to defend them or somehow flip it on women So we feel very betrayed and unsafe Please become a part of the solution, join hands w women, we're waiting for y'all We, again, are just scared and angry and don't know what to do

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Anonymous #3 2d

Yes we are no longer coddling them so they're retaliating.

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Anonymous #3 2d

Yes I agree there are bad men and agree they should be held accountable. I’m not saying men aren’t part of the dating problem as well. You also can’t completely stop that stuff from happening. We can all try to reduce the instances but can never stop it completely. I’m also saying that it’s become an all or nothing scenario. Not all men are going to do those things

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Anonymous #4 2d

Think about it like men being dogs. If enough of them bite you, you're gonna start being weary. It shouldn't be my job to make every dog feel better about being from that species. The dogs should learn how to discipline themselves from within

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Anonymous #1 2d

Yes very true. I can also flip that around and say think of it like women being compulsive liars. If you have multiple instances of a woman lying to you multiple times you start to assume that all women will. It’s a natural response. It’s recognizing patterns and trying to protect yourself. The problem is that it’s assuming that all men want to do these terrible things to women. I certainly don’t. I know a lot of guys that certainly don’t as far as I know.

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Anonymous #4 2d

But how are you supposed to know he isnt a bad guy when all the others are saying it too? Wouldn't it be easier to just keep your guard up until they prove they're safe to be around?

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Anonymous #4 1d

Obviously we assume that all men want to do these things bc there's literally no way to tell and the vast majority of women have been harmed by a man at least once. And instead of y'all good guys having our backs, you say this type of shit 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous #3 1d

For instance, 2 weeks ago I started talking to this super sweet, kind, respectful guy. Turns out the first time we spoke he put a tracker on my car and has been aggressively stalking me! There's no way of knowing who isn't bad. We aren't just gambling w 'Aw they might hurt my feelings, they might break my heart, they might lie to me' we're gambling our lives. It's straight up survival.

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah and it's freaking scary. Among Gen Z men, the rage they hold towards women is obvious and terrifying. They seem to WANT to hurt us. And if they don't personally, they seem to secretly (or not so secretly) be wishing for their fellow men to inflict as much harm upon us as possible.

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Anonymous #1 1d

Always always always keep your guard up. Me, and too many ladies I know have been catastrophically harmed for trying to see the light in men right off the bat rather than waiting for them to prove safety.

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Anonymous #1 1d

How am I supposed to know any person is not a crazy person that will shoot me in the face? You trust your gut instincts. Sometimes they are wrong. Most of the time they are right. It’s also a part of life. There are dangers in life. We can’t exist in a perfectly safe bubble. I’m not excusing the behavior. I’m not encouraging it. I’m saying it’s always a possibility

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Anonymous #3 1d

Ok then let’s use extremes then. Live in the mountains away from any people. Or live with a group of only women. Then you’ll be safe. There problem solved. It’s a lose-lose situation for guys anyway. There will never be enough support that we can give. There will always be blame put on us. Women are perfect and infallible. Happy?

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Anonymous #4 1d

All we want is for y'all to stand up and speak out against the bad guys. Your male voices hold so much power. You don't gotta even praise women or anything. No one is asking for that. No one is asking you to say men as a whole are awful or anything. Just stand against the bad guys. That is the #1 safety indicator. It's really that simple! That's it! Which is why this whole gender war shit is so frustrating!!!

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Anonymous #3 1d

Well glad I already do that. But my one voice means not that much

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