I want someone to fall in love with me for me. I’m quiet, I’m blunt, I’m not warm and bubbly. I wish people would show interest in me for who I am, not who I have to pretend to be.
Why would they if you’re always hurting their feelings gang
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Anonymous#12d
You can be honest but good luck not being warm AND blunt
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Anonymous#12d
I don’t hurt peoples feelings. I’m blunt, I’m not mean
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AnonymousOP2d
Ok then be warm. Love is not supposed to be cold. What you want is a best friend
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Anonymous#12d
I never said I was cold. Just because I’m not the kind of person to bake cookies, laugh at everything, or be the personification of a hug doesn’t mean I’m cold.
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AnonymousOP2d
If you’re not warm then you’re hot or cold. And you give “warm” high expectations. So you’re coldish.
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Anonymous#12d
I have different standards on what warm is and these are yours
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Anonymous#12d
Room temperature, and lukewarm exist.
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AnonymousOP2d
I mean that can be okay but yk you won’t be very passionate and they’d probably want more
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Anonymous#12d
Out of a lover
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Anonymous#12d
So maybe you can ask your lover how to be warm
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Anonymous#12d
I don’t want to be warm. You can easily be passionate without being warm. Btw I am some random stranger on the internet, so it’s really weird that you’re trying to argue with me about how I could be up to your personal standards.
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AnonymousOP2d
Misunderstanding. I mean that how you perceive warm and bubbly is high expectations and my perception is different. And others’ perceptions. Not trying to sound special here
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AnonymousOP2d
And it’s actually good I said that bc your lukewarm might be warm to someone else.
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Anonymous#12d
Okay well regardless, warm and bubbly isn’t me. That’s just not who I am as a person. I don’t think it’s insane to want someone to love me for me
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AnonymousOP2d
Great then just find someone who’s more lukewarm lol