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Bruh our society is at the point where women are doing everything for men. Like why am i liking, starting the convo and setting up the date for every guy i like on hinge?? Why is it that i have to initiate everything and all they gotta do is sit back
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Anonymous 1d

No bc men wanting to be chased so much is annoying you are not all that bro

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Anonymous 1d

You pick the wrong men

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Anonymous 1d

The gender roles are undefined now, a lot of men become directionless without clarity on what they’re supposed to do

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Anonymous 16h

Men have gotten tired of all the chasing they’ve done and work they’ve put in over the years, especially when it isn’t even appreciated. Also, how many women have echoed ā€œhate all menā€ and all men are trash kinds of believes over the past 10 years

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

More like men are not picking me at all šŸ˜ i get no traffic on my hinge unless i do the liking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Damn

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Anonymous 1d

Im far from mid lol but whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Maybe those guys are feeling just as shy as you are

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

The difference is that these guys sit and stew in their emotions unlike me who still goes out and does the hard thing because the world doesnt stop spinning just because they experienced rejection

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

If you initiate convos can they at least keep a good conversation and be engaging? If so it might be worth it to take the lead in the beginning If they’re not asking any questions and being dry I get why that would be annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

No as soon as they realize im not just gonna mold myself to his wants and needs he disappears

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Anonymous 1d

if women gaining rights made men not want to pursue us that’s fine by me. if you want a super traditional guy who won’t let you own your own credit card im sure there’s someone out there for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

LET ME KISS YOU ON THE MOUTH. Im almost 100% sure the birth rate decline and the increase in divorce is because women have rights and resources to have better lives now. We dont have it perfect of course but with the small sliver of equality we have its already showing how unready how most ppl are of dynamics changing with gender, race and class

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

no but honestly any time someone makes the argument that feminism has made things worse for women im always like… okay so dont vote. dont work. don’t have your own bank account/live on your own/etc etc etc bc those were all things feminists fought for that we’re lucky enough to have today. the idea that feminism has done anything but open doors for women is genuinely so stupid and if someone genuinely thinks it’s made their life harder they can go live life without any rights lol

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah because naturally oppressors dont like to take a step of their pedestal. Im sure a well adjusted and emotionally intelligent man could recognize why women are so unhappy with men currently

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Anonymous 1d

it does if you’re blaming feminism. if you genuinely think that’s the reason dating is harder the obvious solution is to live your life as anti-feminist as possible

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Anonymous 1d

ohh now it’s modern feminism? did you realize how dumb you sounded before lol

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Anonymous 1d

We are celebrating because its a clear stat showing that in reality most women would not choose to reproduce unless they had to

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Anonymous 1d

So we have to put like double effort to get bare minimum treatment?? How does that make sense

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Anonymous 1d

im sure it’s very convenient to blame feminism instead of recognizing for the first time women don’t NEED men and instead just WANT them, requiring them to actually be enjoyable to be around and show initiative themselves

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Anonymous 1d

you’re right. you can’t argue over something that doesn’t exist

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Anonymous 1d

im ngl as soon as you blamed feminism for your dating troubles i kinda checked out. idc about having a civil discussion on yikyak of all places after that lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Fr like feminism is what is allowing me to go to school, college, vote, have money, have rights to my own body, get divorced plus like a bunch of important things i never have to think about because FEMINISM

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

1) ive never been chased so idk what youre talking about and 2) if thats what you got out of those movements then maybe you were right and should stop trying because we want men who can take feedback instead of crying about it

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