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men who facetime you to masturbate without telling you is part of rape culture and its gross and uncomfortable

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Anonymous 13h

my ex gf did that except she was getting railed while we were on ft 😀

Anonymous 14h

the fact that you were close enough with the person to be otp with them, and they just straight up betrayed it it is maybe one of the saddest things about this.

Anonymous 13h

This and also dick pics too

Anonymous 11h

this man I’ve never met sent me a pic of his d**k after i told him i had made things exclusive with someone else. It’s just so disrespectful and dehumanizing

Anonymous 12h

Would not do this even if we were married for 50 years 😭

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Anonymous 14h

Wtf I have never heard of this

Anonymous 10h

I mean… it’s a non consensual sexual display… I don’t think you need to do research to find out that’s rape culture

Anonymous 13h

Anonymous 11h

THEY DO THIS?!

Anonymous 1h

If I’ve been talking to them for a while, and we’ve done things in person before.. I don’t mind though it kinda turns me on

Anonymous 13h

Where they do that at?💔

Anonymous 14h

Hang up and block.

Anonymous 10h

When I was in elementary me and my friend went on monkey and a guy had his thing on cam and my friend started to laugh like crazy and I was so confused and I just kept asking is it a baby carrot?? What am I looking at!? A baby’s hand!? And she was laughing so hard to explain and it finally clicked and i screamed and turned off the phone

Anonymous 10h

Is it really? I’m not at all disagreeing, simply curious. Like, it’s been researched and investigated?

Anonymous 11h

Agreed

Anonymous 11h

i had my ex gf do this to me… heard everything 😀

Anonymous 9h

Glad i would never actually do this then.

Anonymous 10h

Anonymous 15h

Why do you have the phone number of someone who would even do that ?

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Anonymous

#1 15h

oh yeah let’s shift blame in any way we can

Anonymous

#1 15h

bro thinks they introduce themselves like “hey i’m evan and i may facetime you just to jerk off hope that’s ok”

Anonymous

#2 15h

Not shifting the blame, just questioning why we are giving out our phone number to internet strangers lmao

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Anonymous

#3 15h

I would hope you'd only give your phone number to people you trust...

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Anonymous

#1 15h

who said it was an internet stranger?

Anonymous

OP 15h

Well that's why I asked my original question of why you have the phone number of someone who would do that?

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Anonymous

#1 15h

yeah sometimes people you trusted betray you this guy might’ve been born yesterday

Anonymous

#1 15h

oh yeah because the moment you trade numbers with someone, you ask them if they’ll beat off to you on facetime! you’re just loud and wrong 🙄

Anonymous

#3 15h

he’s so dense😭

Anonymous

#3 15h

This just seems bizarre. Like if it's someone you genuinely know and trust, then that's a sexual harassment charge right there and I encourage OP to file one.

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Anonymous

#2 15h

literally!! SA happens from trusted people ALL THE TIME.

Anonymous

#1 15h

yeah we know it’s sexual harassment dawg 💀

Anonymous

#2 15h

Well no, you trade numbers with someone because you trust them. Like "yeah, this person probably isn't a creep who would do a disgusting act to me. I know them and trust them enough to give them my phone number." Like hello?

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Anonymous

#3 15h

the whole point of the post btw

Anonymous

OP 15h

in fact more often than not it’s someone you know, attackers take advantage of people when they let down their defenses

Anonymous

#1 15h

i can’t tell if this is bait anymore or a genuinely dense person

Anonymous

OP 15h

So if you're preaching about it on yikyak go out and report them lmao

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Anonymous

#1 14h

just shut the fuck up holy shit you obviously don’t understand how common this is and how little law enforcement cares about it

Anonymous

#3 14h

"Errm actually" 🤓☝️yeah no shit, I know SA statistics. Like I said, it just seems like a bizzare thing for someone you know to do

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Anonymous

#1 14h

what do you think the cops are gonna do 😭

Anonymous

#2 14h

I must say, having someone jerk off on Facetime is new to me I've never heard of that one before. But like I said, I encourage OP to report this person to the police and their job, family, etc.

Anonymous

#3 14h

right bc the police have such a great reputation of handling women’s assaults

Anonymous

#1 14h

well yes sexual harassment is a thing weirdos do? you’re like saying the correct things but backwards

Anonymous

#3 14h

Considering SA is a crime, I'd hope they'd investigate... especially if OP has proof or if other women have experienced the same thing (which is likely)

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Anonymous

OP 14h

Trying is better than not trying 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous

#1 14h

#1 has to be baiting 💀 i fear for the world if they’re not

Anonymous

#1 14h

yea bro might just be stupid 💔💔💔

Anonymous

#3 14h

I guess so. Like I said, if I was OP I would do a little bit more about my situation than post about it on yikyak. If that makes me dumb, so be it🤷

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Anonymous

#2 14h

tbh if it’s real that’s a real rosy world they live in. people you trust never hurt you and law enforcement will investigate sexual violence and actually help you

Anonymous

#3 14h

In an ideal world yeah, police will help, especially if you have proof of wrongdoing. Like I said, reach out to his family, employer, etc only after you've tried the police. Just my advice

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Anonymous

#1 14h

so what proof would you think there would be

Anonymous

#3 14h

If OP screenshotted or screen recorded, that'd be some solid proof

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Anonymous

#1 14h

and depending on the state, that’s illegal. and if the person is underage, which you never really know, then it’s possession of CP

Anonymous

#1 14h

and if they did the most common reaction of immediately hanging up when they realized?

Anonymous

#2 14h

A lawyer would most certainly be able to get around any (if any) legality pertaining to screenshotting on facetime lmao. Also, OP should know if this person is a minor or not.

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Anonymous

#3 14h

Then there's only your word against theirs. Which is why I said try to see if there are other victims, reach out to their family, employer, etc.

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Anonymous

lightbluehater 14h

it unfortunately is common, and sometimes it takes a second to realize what’s happening if the camera is on their face :(

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Anonymous

OP 14h

That is insane wtf

Anonymous

#1 13h

I bet you’re upset ts got called out cause you’re the type to do that

Anonymous

#8 13h

Not at all, I've never even heard of anyone doing that which is why I was confused. And I'm not upset lol

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Anonymous

#1 13h

Sure bud whatever you say

Anonymous

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Anonymous

#9 13h

HUHHH

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Anonymous

#2 13h

yeah it lowk traumatized me

Anonymous

#9 13h

i’m so sorry 🫢

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Anonymous

#2 13h

thank you she was wildly abusive and probably psychotic but i cut her off now 😄

Anonymous 12h

Ik ur being sarcastic right…

Anonymous

#16 11h

yeah 😬 it’s happened to me as well

Anonymous

#2 11h

Holy shit man now I’m scared

Anonymous

#16 11h

lowkey shaming the shit out of them is a power move that has desired revenge effects

Anonymous

#20 10h

Oh come on, don’t downvote me, I’m simply curious!! Just because I’m asking a question doesn’t mean I’m challenging you or disagreeing.

Anonymous

#20 10h

rape culture is embedded in way more than i think anyone realizes. the other party doesn’t know, its a non consensual sex act which absolutely contributes to rape culture. especially if they are trying to get off to your face. can’t describe how dehumanizing it feels that they feel entitled to you like that

Anonymous

OP 9h

Yeah, okay, I can see that. I’m always super hesitant to just accept any FaceTime from a guy I barely spoken 3 words to. I also really hate when they’re calling too. Like TEXT ME. All that and then answering a FaceTime to a dick on your screen? Hell no. Thank you for your explanation. Honestly, when I read the status for some reason, I picked up a feeling that maybe you were involved within psychology, maybe even saw some latest research or something.

Anonymous

#12 9h

No, but if there is researched, it would be very insightful to read

Anonymous

#9 6h

Bro I wish I could hug you rn because wtf 🫂