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men who facetime you to masturbate without telling you is part of rape culture and its gross and uncomfortable
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Anonymous 12w

my ex gf did that except she was getting railed while we were on ft 😀

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Anonymous 12w

This and also dick pics too

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Anonymous 12w

the fact that you were close enough with the person to be otp with them, and they just straight up betrayed it it is maybe one of the saddest things about this.

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Anonymous 12w

this man I’ve never met sent me a pic of his d**k after i told him i had made things exclusive with someone else. It’s just so disrespectful and dehumanizing

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Anonymous 12w

Would not do this even if we were married for 50 years 😭

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Anonymous 12w

Wtf I have never heard of this

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Anonymous 12w

I mean… it’s a non consensual sexual display… I don’t think you need to do research to find out that’s rape culture

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Anonymous 12w
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Anonymous 12w

i had my ex gf do this to me… heard everything 😀

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Anonymous 12w

Hang up and block.

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Anonymous 12w

THEY DO THIS?!

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Anonymous 12w

Where they do that at?💔

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Anonymous 11w

If I’ve been talking to them for a while, and we’ve done things in person before.. I don’t mind though it kinda turns me on

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Anonymous 12w

Glad i would never actually do this then.

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Anonymous 12w

Is it really? I’m not at all disagreeing, simply curious. Like, it’s been researched and investigated?

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Anonymous 12w

?

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 12w

it unfortunately is common, and sometimes it takes a second to realize what’s happening if the camera is on their face :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

That is insane wtf

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

HUHHH

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

yeah it lowk traumatized me

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

i’m so sorry 🫢

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

thank you she was wildly abusive and probably psychotic but i cut her off now 😄

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Anonymous 12w

Ik ur being sarcastic right…

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 12w

yeah 😬 it’s happened to me as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Holy shit man now I’m scared

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 12w

lowkey shaming the shit out of them is a power move that has desired revenge effects

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 12w

Oh come on, don’t downvote me, I’m simply curious!! Just because I’m asking a question doesn’t mean I’m challenging you or disagreeing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 12w

rape culture is embedded in way more than i think anyone realizes. the other party doesn’t know, its a non consensual sex act which absolutely contributes to rape culture. especially if they are trying to get off to your face. can’t describe how dehumanizing it feels that they feel entitled to you like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Yeah, okay, I can see that. I’m always super hesitant to just accept any FaceTime from a guy I barely spoken 3 words to. I also really hate when they’re calling too. Like TEXT ME. All that and then answering a FaceTime to a dick on your screen? Hell no. Thank you for your explanation. Honestly, when I read the status for some reason, I picked up a feeling that maybe you were involved within psychology, maybe even saw some latest research or something.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 12w

No, but if there is researched, it would be very insightful to read

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 11w

Bro I wish I could hug you rn because wtf 🫂

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 11w

omg my hater, i found you 🥰 👋

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 11w

i feel like if there’s already some type of agreement it’s fine!

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 11w

Hii

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 11w

Same. Can we be clear on what’s actually happening here? Are we saying the guy is masturbating while on FaceTime with the girl with the girl being unaware of it? Is that what’s going on? I’m a guy and this is News to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 11w

yes

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