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I’m a virgin and I really don’t wanna be. I want to experience soul shattering sex, the kind where you come completely undone and have to slowly come back into consciousness. 😵‍💫 I need a man who can make this a reality
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Anonymous 4w

Girl I’m going to tell you something no one told me until after. Even with lube, love, and patience, the first time hurts bad. If you never start enjoying it that first time, don’t worry. The second or third time is when it actually starts feeling good the whole way through. Good luck sis

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Anonymous 4w

ull only get that experience w someone you love!!

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Anonymous 4w

Sounds like you read smut with that bit about consciousness that’s just as bad as porn for creating bad expectations

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Anonymous 4w

I’m a dude but felt

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Anonymous 4w

You’re expectations of men are to high. Lower them before you disappoint yourself 😭😂

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Anonymous 4w

As a man, I would like to experience the 2nd sentence as well.

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Anonymous 4w

if it hurts to insert something it could be your pelvic floor rejecting, try inserting to get yourself used to the feeling

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Anonymous 4w

Literally every virgin is a weirdo and speaks like this 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous 4w

HMU we will see what we can do about your problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

this is real asf!! it’s also safer to use non-latex condoms just incase you have a strange reaction to regular latex condoms. I didn’t realize i had that problem until much later, and because of that my first time was also much more painful (unnecessarily)!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

For me, it def hurt at first, but it got better after 30 sec-1 min. It’s important to find a partner who makes you feel secure and who cares about how you feel. A lot of my first time was good because of who I had my first time with.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I feel sorry that you don’t ever want this for yourself and push that insecurity onto others.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Mmmn you lucky bitch😭🤣 we tried for a few minutes but I was crying and we stopped after a while. He was actually so sweet and patient but the good feeling was totally overshadowed by a super painful feeling. He didn’t even want to keep going but I kept thinking it would get better soon😬😂. Second time also hurt but bearable, just not enjoyable. Third time was the most amazing feeling ever lmfaooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

I never said I don’t want it. I’ve had it but majority of men these days don’t even know where your clit is let alone all this extra stuff. And for the first time? No. Not saying it’s not possible but it’s also not likely when majority just wanna get their dicks wet anyways🤷🏽‍♀️

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