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Confessions 16w
my ex broke up with me because of my drinking but didn’t ever give me the chance to stop. is that fair? (never yelled or got violent, just louder and more excited)
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Anonymous 16w

Yeah. It’s fair to leave a relationship at any time for any reason

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Anonymous 16w

yeah it's fair. alcoholics are scary. you might not have done anything but given her past trauma you can't blame her for wanting to stay far away from that

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Anonymous 16w

Yes it’s fair I’ve been through that and personally I wish I had just left instead of giving chances bc u won’t fix urself for anyone but you no matter how much u may love them

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Anonymous 16w

I honestly want more details. They didn’t like how much u drank? Even though u didn’t do anything wrong?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

her dad was an alcoholic and she said “the way” i drank without stopping reminded her of him

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Anonymous replying to -> og_beer 16w

awful take😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

not an awful take at all. seems your ex dodged a major bullet

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

How is “no one is entitled to a relationship with someone and is free to leave whenever they’d like” a bad take

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Anonymous replying to -> og_beer 16w

i don’t disagree with whenever you’d like but for any reason seems immature

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Thing is tho u don’t need a reason and the fact that she told u abt her dad being a drinker and it didn’t click that maybe she didn’t wanna be around that is immature and now ur making her out to be the bad guy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Would you rather someone continue to date you when they have a reason they want to leave? Growing resentment until they hate you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

how did you respond to her saying that?

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