Anonymous #1 12w

We wasn’t dating tbh none of them ended up being my bf so it’s their faults

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Anonymous OP 12w

Still like I said doesn’t matter if you’re dating, telling them you’re exclusive and then not following through on that is basically cheating. Maybe not quite as bad but still.

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Anonymous #1 12w

So I should have kept the baby and they all raised it?

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Anonymous OP 12w

No clue where you got that from????

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Anonymous #1 12w

Sorry I thought that’s what u meant

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Anonymous OP 12w

No. I meant you cheated lol. I understand getting an abortion in that situation, hell I would’ve without a second thought. Just the claiming to be exclusive is fucked.

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Anonymous #1 12w

It wasn’t cheating they chose to fuck me raw tbh plus I only like knew them all for a few months but ig I didn’t tell them I was seeing other people it was more don’t ask don’t tell

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Anonymous OP 12w

But you told them you were exclusive? That means only seeing them… EXCLUSIVELY. As in no one else. And that was a lie. Therefore, cheating.

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Anonymous #1 12w

I said this pussy yours is whst I mean lol

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Anonymous OP 12w

Then girl don’t say you told them you were exclusive 😭 lowkey feel like you’re jus back peddling cus you don’t wanna be called a cheater.

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Anonymous #1 12w

It’s not cheating if we weren’t dating 😭 I don’t owe men anything

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Anonymous OP 12w

I mean you don’t but telling someone you’re exclusive and not being exclusive is a violation of trust and absolutely shitty. Like your word just don’t mean shit?

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Anonymous #1 12w

Yes if I just fucking someone basically

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Anonymous OP 12w

Yea but you need to be open with people abt if you’re fuckin other ppl. Like they probably would NOT have gone raw if they knew you were messing around with 2 other guys.

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Anonymous #1 12w

Yes but I don’t owe them that I think cuz what if they fucking other people

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Anonymous OP 12w

???? Then you would hope they would be honest as well???? It’s a two way street man if you’re both not telling than that’s how issues start. This is the baseline with any sexual partner, safe sex 101, basic respect and maturity.

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Anonymous #1 12w

no

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Anonymous OP 12w

Girl….. you are not practicing safe sex in the big 25. Fucking crazy.

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Anonymous #1 12w

No why do u think I needed an abortion

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Anonymous OP 12w

Girl shit happens even with safe sex, but actively ignoring basically EVERY safe sex practice?????? Wild. STUPID even.

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Anonymous OP 12w

girl I already said idgaf if you’re gettin abortions, I care about the safety of you and your sexual partners 😭 yk like a compassionate human being.

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Anonymous #1 12w

No they made their bed

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Anonymous OP 12w

???? GIRL YOU MADE THEIR BED, YOU LIED TO THEM FUCKERS

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Anonymous #1 12w

NO I DIDNT PEOPLE SAY CRAZY STUFF DURING SEX

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Anonymous OP 12w

THAT DOESNT MAKE IT TRUE???? THATS SOMETHING YOU GOTTA CLARIFY LATER ON.

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Anonymous #1 12w

NO

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Anonymous OP 12w

EXACTLY, THATS A LIE OF OMISSION. YOU ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO BE HAVIN SEX. PRACTICE SAFE SEX.

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Anonymous #1 12w

NO BECAUSE I GET CHECKED AFTER

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Anonymous OP 12w

ITS STILL A VIOLATION OF TRUST TO NOT INFORM SEXUAL PARTNERS THAT YOU ACTIVELY HAVE SEX WITH OTHER PPL. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU SAY “this pussy yours” DURING SEX

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Anonymous #1 12w

NO ITS ACTUALLY NOT BECAUSE IF THEY DONT ASK I DONT TWLL. I DO NOTHAVE AN STD. THEY ARE CHOOSING TO HAVE IT RAW

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