
I think you’re missing my point though, like 130 is arbitrary if someone is 5’0 or 5’7, or thin/muscular then that looks very different. you can have your preferences in terms of visual appearance but it’s weird to base it solely on a number. like if I thought someone was attractive while standing next to me but then they said they were actually 1 inch shorter than I thought and I said nvm that’s a dealbreaker