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This girl says she wants a real relationship with me but also has a roster 🚩
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Anonymous 2d

I mean put in the work for a relationship and when you see that you both are serious that’s when it’s time to drop the roster. Why expect someone to put all their eggs in a basket that isn’t stable?

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Anonymous 2d

For example: there is this guy that I really really like. We’ve been seeing each other and we talked about pursuing things and I told him prove to me that you’re serious and I’ll drop the roster. Why do people expect 100% commitment from the moment they meet. Do yk what I mean? Once u guys start getting really serious and discuss exclusiveness that’s when u drop the rosters and commit to being loyal

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Anonymous 2d

Nah that’s a green flag

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Fair but also bragging about the roster is a turn off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Bragging about a roster is crazy. If I’m talking to someone/starting to talk to someone/getting to know someone other people are never mentioned unless we’re discussing romantic/sexual history. Normally, we would only ever be talking about that if we’re trying to be on the same page as to where we are in our Situationship or talking about it to establish boundaries to keep going forward.

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