Anonymous #1 4w

cuz i didn't care that much about him or the concept of cheating, really, i just wanted to know why he felt the need to cheat on me with someone who i thought was objectively worse. if he had cheated on me with someone cooler or hotter, i would have been less offended

-2

Anonymous OP 4w

pro-tip: opinions are not “objective”

1

Anonymous OP 4w

i mean you’re still attacking this girl who im not saying is innocent at all, but i don’t see you calling the man the dirty fugly lowdown cheater that he is. just all insults against the woman when your man is the one who betrayed you. if you think you’re better than her then great, but blasting her online instead of the bum is strange

2

Anonymous #1 4w

tbh in spite of OP’s egotism it def sounds like she’s sorely lacking in self-respect 😬 cause wdym “i don’t care that much about the concept of cheating”

1

Anonymous #1 4w

i'm not calling him names bc i wasn't that upsetting about the cheating, just baffled by the choice of partner to cheat with. you seem to be more upset than i am. take a breath. i don't care about the guy he cheated on me with either. he'll never know i think im better than him, because id never say that to him. he'll be alright

-1

Anonymous #2 4w

they aren't. but you know when two people are not the same. let's not be daft

-1

Anonymous #2 4w

not everyone feels as intensely about monogamy as you do. crazy concept but some people care about different things

0

Anonymous #2 4w

right like that’s the most basic requirement of being in a relationship, be faithful. and why stay with someone you don’t care about? i just don’t understand because if you don’t care about him then why go out of the way to talk about this? sounds like she just wanted to hate on the woman.

4

Anonymous OP 4w

you said “who i thought was objectively worse” lol. if you have to qualify it with “i thought” then it’s not objective also worth keeping in mind that not everyone is going to estimate another’s human worth by the same shallow metrics as you apparently do

1

Anonymous OP 4w

I’m polyamorous lmao. cheating involves deception / dishonesty, lack of integrity, failure to communicate. those are two very different things… like you said, “let’s not be daft”

1

Anonymous OP 4w

im not even upset im just saying the concept of having more anger directed to the person outside the relationship than the one in it is insane. he shouldn’t be able to have his actions brushed off while you attack the other person’s character

4

Anonymous OP 4w

holy reading comprehension? we WANT you to shit on the cheater for being a cheater and u aren’t even doing that hello

7

Anonymous OP 4w

#1 and I are pretty obviously not defending cheating? you’re the one talking like the cheating itself was nbd. some powerful cognitive dissonance going on over there

1