Confessions on Sidechat | weird confession. can anyone else relate? i am so insecure and feel so ugly that i stop myself from listening to what i can only describe as “hot girl music.” does this make sense? like, azalea banks, or rhianna, etc. i feel like an imposter when i do :(

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Confessions 14h

weird confession. can anyone else relate? i am so insecure and feel so ugly that i stop myself from listening to what i can only describe as “hot girl music.” does this make sense? like, azalea banks, or rhianna, etc. i feel like an imposter when i do :(

Anonymous 14h

i am a man and i listen to cunty music cuz i feel cunty. not because i am hot.

Anonymous 14h

Wait yes! I always feel like an imposter when I listen to Britney Spears

Anonymous 14h

Yess it makes me feel so awkward

Anonymous 13h

I’m a guy and listen to hot girl music. Don’t restrict yourself :)

Anonymous 14h

Guys this makes me so sad😭 you deserve to listen to hot girl music and you deserve to feel hot because yall are BAD BITCHES and I will slap you if you think otherwise!!💕

Anonymous 11h

I grew up feeling like this but my hot take (pun unintended) is that anyone can embody Hot Girl Energy if they want to, regardless of who they are or what they look like. someone else here mentioned Britney Spears, and I def didn’t really vibe with her music until I figured out how to be that version of myself

Anonymous

#1 14h

like i really enjoy some of the songs i hear, but i just don’t feel like i’m allowed to be listening to them. i love music. and want to enjoy it all. but i feel so out of place

Anonymous

#3 14h

well please come and slap me because i want to be able to feel hot and sexy and cunty but i truly don’t think i’m capable 😭 trust me, it makes me sad too :(

Anonymous

OP 14h

Bet wya girl I will come right now😭you are very capable but I know it’s hard

Anonymous

#6 11h

i just don’t know how to get there without changing myself and losing weight. i want to be able to love myself now, though

Anonymous

OP 10h

I’ve always been big too, and what made the difference for me personally was switching up my fashion. cause fashion can practically be shapeshifting magic—if you don’t feel good about the size and shape of your body, the secret is to use clothing to create a silhouette you like better. once you’ve seen yourself in clothes that have that effect, it starts to get easier to make peace with how you naturally look

Anonymous

OP 10h

I would recommend setting aside some time to go try on clothes that are a little more revealing than what you’re accustomed to, even stuff you think might look ridiculous on you, and even if you can’t afford to spend much rn. the first step is just proving to yourself in private that it’s possible to look in the mirror and see someone who’s cuter than you were expecting!