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How do you deal with a performative emotionally abusive mother who enjoys seeing you anxious or on the verge of breaking down and actively pushes you further into mental crisis
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Anonymous 9w

you crash out on her with a long ass paragraph then gtfo and cut contact

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Anonymous 9w

Like in public

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Anonymous 9w

Like I’m hyperventilating and she’s acting like I’m being a diva

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Anonymous 9w

That’s rough

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Literally how come the random make nurse is more comforting than my own MOTHER

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

male*

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

What happened?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

she was glaring at me across the table and instigating when I was having a severe silent panic attack

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

seriously though i’m so sorry you have to go through that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

she’s so mean I’ve been so sick like 8 or 9 times now since 3:30 bc of giving me way too much caffeine and I’m literally crying and throwing up in my car 0/10 would not wish on my worst enemy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

She’s not caring or nurturing at all she’s inconvenienced and yelling at me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Sorry tmi but like I have ginger ale and Dramamine and I’m so sick and j sad as shit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Obv I have bags so it’s not gross in my car or anything but

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

you deserve so much better. you gotta stand up for yourself because at some point something has gotta give it’s not good for you to be going through this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

You are so right🫶.Thank you for your advice

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