Confessions on Sidechat | Told this guy I don’t believe in sex before marriage. I don’t cook for a man that is not my partner. I do not spend the night at a man house before marriage. Kids come after 5 years of marriage. The list goes on and he blocked me. 😭 I’m not changing

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Confessions 4w

Told this guy I don’t believe in sex before marriage. I don’t cook for a man that is not my partner. I do not spend the night at a man house before marriage. Kids come after 5 years of marriage. The list goes on and he blocked me. 😭 I’m not changing

Anonymous 4w

Hold on tight to your beliefs. You’re not alone

Anonymous 4w

Good for you. If they can’t do that, how are they gonna care for you and a child?? Like

Anonymous 4w

that’s too conservative for me, but do whatever you think is right

Anonymous 4w

Don’t change your standards for a low value person….if they truly want to be in your life they will rise to the standards and if they don’t someone else will I’ve learned to think like that and it has settled my heart and made me realize some people really ain’t shit

Anonymous 4w

I respect you, your beliefs, and I think you should stay true to them. That being said, what’s your reasoning behind no kids until 5 years of marriage? I’m a male senior in HS so maybe time does feel faster after you graduate, but imo 5 years is a LONG time. I would fear that I wouldn’t be able to see most of my kids’ lives if I didn’t start having them until after 5 years of marriage.

Anonymous 4w

Good luck! I hope you like collecting cats…

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Anonymous

#2 4w

Exactly, and I told him he needs to have a steady legal job and a plan to come back if God forbid he falls. If you can’t bounce back fast as a single person how can you with kids? I think about the future not the moment.

Anonymous

#6 4w

Cats are a lot better mannered than you it seems…it’s ok to have standards and it’s ok to want to sleep around but being rude about it will get you no where but more disappointed…if you wanted to show us your insecure then you just did…I wish you luck on your self healing journey but please leave the girl alone… we all deserve to be loved for who we are…even you (don’t expect a response I won’t give you one but have a good day or night wherever you are)

Anonymous

#5 4w

I love cats! 🐈 I also have very high standards, and now have 6 cats in my house. I’m talking from experience. With each cat, I add an item to my standards. Once the OP acquires her first cat, scratch posts are an absolute necessity! Those little buggers will wreak havoc on your furniture!

Anonymous

#6 4w

I love cats I actually have two they’re well behaved. They’re the sweetest and most loving cats ever. 🙃