Confessions on Sidechat | I feel like I’ll never find love. I’ve never had a boyfriend. Never had a talking stage longer than a month. I get I’m the common denominator and I’m probably the problem but it still hurts. Seeing my friends get boyfriends while I stay alone.

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Confessions 8w

I feel like I’ll never find love. I’ve never had a boyfriend. Never had a talking stage longer than a month. I get I’m the common denominator and I’m probably the problem but it still hurts. Seeing my friends get boyfriends while I stay alone.

Anonymous 8w

Fix your mindset, don’t just wallow. Think WHY it’s not working. WHERE are you going wrong. Behavior, self image, and effort into your appearance are all things you can and should improve

Anonymous 8w

I’m free

Anonymous 8w

I can fully relate

Anonymous 8w

Do you think it’s something you’re saying during the conversation stage?

Anonymous

#1 8w

Either put yourself out there more and make moves, change where you are meeting people, or make improvements to your behavior

Anonymous

#1 8w

-an autistic man in a happy relationship who had that exact mindset 5 years ago

Anonymous

#1 8w

I’m autistic how did you talk to people without saying stupid shit

Anonymous

#2 8w

I say a lot of stupid shit, depending on reaction I either apologize or follow up with a joke to play it off. It’s exhausting but worth it to force yourself out of your comfort zone and be ok making mistakes

Anonymous

#1 8w

Honestly I think I’m too ugly to get let off with one mistake. I always thought of myself as average but one mistake typically triggers what girls call the ick and they like start to lose interest

Anonymous

#5 8w

Probably or it’s just my looks

Anonymous

OP 8w

You think you’re ugly?

Anonymous

#5 8w

Must be

Anonymous

OP 8w

Are you generally negative when chatting? That puts guys off.

Anonymous 8w

I’m generally positive when talking to others