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Confessions 2w
I feel like I’ll never find love. I’ve never had a boyfriend. Never had a talking stage longer than a month. I get I’m the common denominator and I’m probably the problem but it still hurts. Seeing my friends get boyfriends while I stay alone.
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Anonymous 2w

Fix your mindset, don’t just wallow. Think WHY it’s not working. WHERE are you going wrong. Behavior, self image, and effort into your appearance are all things you can and should improve

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Anonymous 2w

I’m free

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Anonymous 2w

I can fully relate

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Anonymous 2w

Do you think it’s something you’re saying during the conversation stage?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Either put yourself out there more and make moves, change where you are meeting people, or make improvements to your behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

-an autistic man in a happy relationship who had that exact mindset 5 years ago

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’m autistic how did you talk to people without saying stupid shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I say a lot of stupid shit, depending on reaction I either apologize or follow up with a joke to play it off. It’s exhausting but worth it to force yourself out of your comfort zone and be ok making mistakes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Honestly I think I’m too ugly to get let off with one mistake. I always thought of myself as average but one mistake typically triggers what girls call the ick and they like start to lose interest

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Probably or it’s just my looks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You think you’re ugly?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Must be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Are you generally negative when chatting? That puts guys off.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

I try not to tell people I see myself like this. I don’t like bothering people with this. I think k that’s why I posted on here. No one knows who I am.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I’m generally positive when talking to others

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