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the reason why women have a hard time finding men is because most men aren’t emotionally intelligent

Anonymous 1d

The reason why most people have a hard time finding a compatible partner is because most people aren’t emotionally intelligent In fact, in my experience, the people who constantly throw around the term ‘emotionally intelligent’ are some of the least emotionally intelligent people. They’re just emotionally expressive and that is NOT the same thing as emotional intelligence

Anonymous 1d

And the root of the issue is that men are taught they need to be “stoic” “strong” and “boys don’t cry”. Men have the capacity for emotional intelligence, people need to do a better job of raising their sons to feel emotions in healthy ways. And adult men need to recognize these patterns and unlearn them.

Anonymous 18h

I’m gonna get downvoted for this but I hate hearing this cause in my experience a lot of women aren’t emotionally intelligent. So it’s not one sided

Anonymous

littlepenis_never_dies 1d

exactly, people need to realize this and it irks me a lot

Anonymous

#2 1d

thankfully i was raised to express my emotions, it’s hard to cry in front of someone, but when it’s needed you have to.

Anonymous

OP 1d

I am glad you were. Wish more people did it that way.

Anonymous

#3 18h

it isn’t at all, it’s just that men are usually less emotionally unintelligent from what i’ve experienced

Anonymous

OP 18h

doesn’t mean there aren’t men that are emotionally intelligent

Anonymous

OP 18h

Very fair and true. Also thanks for not attacking me or anything haha

Anonymous

#3 18h

of course, treat people the way you wanna be treated