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As a trans person it’s perfectly ok to not be into trans people without being transphobic

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Anonymous 5d

Like just don’t be a dick to people the same as any other sexual preference you have

Anonymous 5d

Most cis people get downvoted for saying this exact opinion in respectful ways. So thank you for this. It’s all ok as long as it’s respectful

Anonymous 4d

honestly the biggest problem in all of this is people with genital preferences feeling the need to announce it to the whole internet. Like. You could just reject people respectfully when it comes up like a normal person. You don’t see people coming online going on whole rants about how they’ll never fuck a blond. It’s like why do you care so much that everyone knows you won’t fuck a trans person. Why is it so important to you.

Anonymous 5d

Why did my comment get reported nothing I said was wrong?

Anonymous 5d

yeah I mean i don’t wanna be w someone who’s not attracted to me. just don’t be a dick n shit 🤷‍♂️

Anonymous 4d

question for others with genital preference: if a trans person gets all the surgeries, would you still not be into them? i myself have a genital preference but would absolutely be into a trans man with top and bottom surgery. curious if this is different or the same for anyone else and why (if you’re comfortable elaborating)

Anonymous 4d

Does respecting you mean treating you like I would any other heterosexual couple for example? That is, me minding my business and not caring about you AT ALL?

Anonymous 5d

Why then when a straight person is not into a transit person you're quick and loud to brand them as transphobic?

Anonymous 5d

Is it bad if I prefer trans people more like as a type?

Anonymous 5d

Excluding people solely based on them being trans is, in fact, transphobic.

Anonymous 5d

thanks for your permission to not be into trans people i was scared someone was gonna force me to be into trans people

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Anonymous

#2 5d

The woke left wants to FORCE you to LOVE trans people!!!!!

Anonymous

lightbluehater 5d

godammit now i'm scared again OP made me feel safe

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Anonymous

#2 5d

😈😈😈😈

Anonymous

#2 5d

There are some people in the community who genuinely think that way which is why I made the post lol

Anonymous

#3 5d

As long as you still respect trans people for who they are and aren’t harassing us for not being what you’re into there’s not really a problem 💯

Anonymous

#7 5d

I’m not lol, I mean you can be straight and be into trans people but if you’re not there’s nothing wrong with that as long as you still respect us

Anonymous

#9 4d

having a genital preference is not transphobic -a trans person

Anonymous

#8 4d

If you’re also trans, no. A lot of trans people feel safer with trans partners. If you’re not trans, yeah that’s bad you might be a chaser. Maybe ask yourself why you prefer trans people and why you don’t see them as their genders in the way you do cis people

Anonymous

#6 4d

I kinda like masculine facial features with trans women or like the slightly deeper voice. Tbf I did debate about transitioning but the type came before that

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Anonymous

#10 4d

Excluding trans people who have said genitals is transphobic.

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Anonymous

#9 4d

bruh stfu

Anonymous

#10 4d

No, I’m sick of transphobic bullshit. Fuck off.

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Anonymous

#9 4d

i’m literally a trans person. i’ve been on hormones for over a year and half, if anyone’s sick of transphobic bs it’s me. you are just a really insecure person who can’t accept that people don’t like you just because of who you are, not because of transness.

Anonymous

#10 4d

Cool, I’ve got five years of HRT on you. It’s not a fucking contest. Rejecting one person isn’t an issue— rejecting an entire demographic is always problematic. Grow up.

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Anonymous

#6 4d

The bigotry is the point, unfortunately.

Anonymous

#6 4d

It ends up reading as weirdly transphobic even if the actual genital preference might not be.

Anonymous

#11 4d

realize i should clarify my genital preference is no boobs and penis

Anonymous

#10 4d

actually quick follow up question! if a trans person gets the surgeries to have the genitals of preference (like #9 mentioned), why would it not be transphobic to still not date them? i’m genuinely asking, not trying to pull a “gotcha moment”!

Anonymous

#11 4d

no it wouldn't be. no matter how many surgeries you get at the end of the day you won't have what we're looking for in a partner. and that's fine, there's people who will still love you, just a lot of people look for things that trans people don't have.

Anonymous

#9 4d

so am i manphobic because i exclude all men? not attracted to men but i guess i have to start fucking them now or i'm being exclusionary.

Anonymous

#2 4d

Congrats on missing the point and still pushing transphobic bullshit.

Anonymous

#2 4d

if you don’t mind me asking, could you elaborate on what you mean by “won’t have what we’re looking for”? if they have the genitals you’re looking for, what more are they missing? again, sorry if this comes off rude, i’m just trying to understand better!

Anonymous

#11 4d

So…you’re into guys

Anonymous

#12 4d

yes!