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I feel like I’ll never find someone that like just clicks :/
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Anonymous 2w

Are you in your 20’s? You got a lot of life left

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Anonymous 2w

I also feel this :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yes I am in my 20s. Yes I know I have lots of life to live. I want a best friend. I want someone I call and hug and share everything with. I have friends but they all have their groups and I feel like I need to put all the effort to reach out to maintain it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

But I fear romance (which I also deeply crave) is the only way to get this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Do you spend a lot of time thinking about it? I mean, are you dating? Just be patient and position yourself in a place to find someone, to be approached. How would your friends describe you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yes I spend lots of time thinking about it I am not dating I am always in public They describe me is a gentle heart that has a good fashion sense and unique hobbies and is always ready to help them when they are in need, but sometimes awkward lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You sound pretty great, I doubt you’ll have a problem finding a guy that will see those qualities. It seems like maybe just being at peace in this season, have peace now so when it happens, you won’t give off thirsty vibes. You’ll be okay, promise.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I am a man looking for women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Ahh, the way you described yourself I thought it was a woman. You might be gay, you sound soft

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Dick really isn’t my thing 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Everything sounds very soft, no off new, I think anyone reading would think it’s a girl. Everything you said sounds so feminine. Like I believe you light have had your formulation of what a partner is to come from absorbing media and not the underlying reality that’s a hit more rough and real. In real life, you protect your partner, you take care to cherish her, but it comes from a place of knowing there is danger. It’s not life in the clouds, it’s being aware.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

While your sentiments are genuine and don’t fault you for that, maybe that’s a part of why you might be alone? What do you think a girl sees?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Lowk that’s just a lot of yap

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I have great connections with women and have dated, just nothing that has clicked for me deeply 🤷‍♂️

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